Been two years now since I been wanting my own pole at home but the ceilings looked questionable, so I took a paused. Now I’m looking into having my own pole but I’m still not sure if my ceiling is safe enough to install one. If anyone have a ceilings like this, what did you do?
I’m at a newly revamped club and was honestly surprised to see they have a whole collection of butt plugs available for dancers to wear on stage. At my last club, butt plugs were actually a way to stand out and add something extra to your look. I saw a few girls wear them here and there, and they usually made good money.
Now that I actually have access to getting one myself, I’ve been curious about trying it. But one thing I keep noticing is how many people seem against it. I tried looking up opinions and tips, and surprisingly, a lot of dancers don’t like them which kind of shocked me.
From what I’ve seen the main concerns are that it looks “trashy” or that it’s unhygienic. But at the same time, we’re already dealing with exposure in this job in general. Whether you’re dancing with or without bottoms, a lot is already visible. We’re on the same stage, around the same people, doing the same kind of work.
There are already hygiene risks everywhere in this environment, so I don’t fully understand why this one thing gets singled out more than anything else. Everything should honestly be treated as a hygiene risk.
Personally, I don’t really see how it automatically makes someone look trashy. From what I had seen before, it can actually help some dancers stand out and attract attention, which can translate into making more money. At the end of the day, this job is about presentation and what works for you. But now that I expressed that, what’s the realllll reason? And what are tips for someone that is getting into using them. Just trying to make sense of it and get some tips starting out as a beginner for the ones that do support the plugs.