u/beautifulbanshee82

I (mtf) was pumping gas once when this guy asked me "where's your man at?" I told him I didn't have a man and that I'm a lesbian. He apparently heard "I don't have a man, please hit on me harder." He kept asking me for my number. I had to finally be pretty direct and tell him that I wasn't joking, I'm not attracted to men and I wasn't interested.

I have since learned to respond with "I'm engaged" without giving the gender of my partner. Men seem to think all lesbians have a fantasy or desire to be in a threesome with a guy simply because it's their own fantasy. By simply telling them I'm engaged, they assume it's to a man and they wouldn't dare disrespect HIM by hitting on his property.

Pretty fucked up but also weirdly affirming of my femininity.