u/birthe_cool

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I spend a lot of time testing AI͏ assistants for fun/side projects, and last week was: sex͏ting AI. I wanted to see how far conversational AI can go when the "stakes" feel higher than casual chat.

The problem I kept running into:

Most existing sexting chat bot platforms are shallow. You send 5-10 messages, and suddenly the bot is looping the same three phrases. No memo͏ry. No personality drift. No replayability. So I started building my own.

What I'm experimenting with:

Instead of a standard AI girlfriend sexting setup (which tends to be passive/reactive), I'm adding: branching dialogue paths (choices matter), a "mood" system that tracks conversation history, and consequences for low-effort replies (basically turning it into an AI sexting game).

Has anyone here built or fine-͏tuned a sexting AI that actually feels smart Something with actual character consistency? Also curious if anyone knows the best sexting AI architecture for long context windows. I'm currently experimenting with fine-tuned Llama 3.x, but open to suggestions.

Tools I'm using so far: Local LLM via Ollama, Cus͏tom system prompt + memory buffer, and thinking about adding RAG for long-term "relationship" memory.

Happy to share my prompt template if others are curious.

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u/Kevin-Panda — 24 days ago