u/bondagefemale34

please read the entire post. It is a little lengthy, but will save us both wasting our time.

I am not selling/scamming or a bot.

if you can read this then my inbox is open.

I am D. I am a middle aged women who has a passion for bondage.

I love everything about it and I love to talk about it with others who share the interest.

I post regularly looking for chat partners , so you may have seen my posts before.

But I realise that I only appear in people's feeds briefly, so I feel like regular posting equals more interesting people contacting me 🤞.

Things to know about me are :

1. I do not identify as a slave/sub or being owned.

2. I do not really follow the typical BDSM lifestyle or Dynamic.

3. I am just a middle aged women who is generally submissive who adores bondage.

4. I don't pigeonhole myself into a type or dynamic.

5. I am happily married but am fine chatting on here.

6. He knows I chat to people and knows it can sometimes be more than just talking about the weather etc and he's fine with it, I just don't meet or hookup.

7. I am not interested in being called mommy or being anyone's mommy Domme or online Domme/sub.

8. I am not interested in Dick Pics or overly aggressive introductions.

for example, starting messages with "hi slut" or "you sound like a naughty slut" etc etc will just get you instantly blocked.

9. I am mature women and not a girl and I am absolutely fine with talking to anyone as long as they are an Adult.

10. I am fine with anyone of any Gender chatting to me. I have a bi cross dressing husband, so pretty much am open to all wonderful people under the rainbow.

11. I like to chat to people who have at least some of the same interests.

messaging me and telling me it's not really your thing is pointless.

a few of my kinks are....but not limited too......

Heavy bondage, such as chains, cuffs, straps and straight jackets etc.

gags.

hoods.

sexy clothing such as PVC and leather.

some forced orgasm play.

some watersports

some CNC

some that I can not mention as they are trigger words for bots.

very specific humiliation, things like inappropriate clothing or being made to do things because someone has something over me.

(not into name calling or body writing).

I have one or two darker kinks which I will discuss if I think you can handle it 😉. But please be aware that if you ask me and I take the time to explain and then you vanish it's not fair.

Don't ask if your limits are mainstream.

My hard limits on the other hand are:

gaping/stretching/fisting

heavy pain

death

blood/gore

scat

and the other very obvious one.

I promise I am open and friendly and I really appreciate you taking the time to read my post.

I look forward to hearing from you.

P.s.

Please please please do not message me with a message similar to this as I have already said I don't mind.

"I am (insert number) is that ok ?

Do you talk to younger guys? "

Or the famous line of

"I am (insert number) or I have (insert size) does that turn you on ?"

The answer is no.

Your intellect and imagination turns me on, along with your creativity and the ability to hold an equal paced conversation.

Take your size and youth elsewhere if you feel you need recognition for it.

But again I promise I'm lovely xxxx

please read the entire post. It is a little lengthy, but will save us both wasting our time.

I am not selling/scamming or a bot.

if you can read this then my inbox is open.

I am D. I am a middle aged women who has a passion for bondage.

I love everything about it and I love to talk about it with others who share the interest.

I post regularly looking for chat partners , so you may have seen my posts before.

Things to know about me are :

1. I do not identify as a slave/sub or being owned.

2. I do not really follow the typical BDSM lifestyle or Dynamic.

3. I am just a middle aged women who is generally submissive who adores bondage.

4. I don't pigeonhole myself into a type or dynamic.

5. I am happily married but am fine chatting on here.

6. He knows I chat to people and knows it can sometimes be more than just talking about the weather etc and he's fine with it, I just don't meet or hookup.

7. I am not interested in being called mommy or being anyone's mommy Domme or online Domme/sub.

8. I am not interested in Dick Pics or overly aggressive introductions.

for example, starting messages with "hi slut" or "you sound like a naughty slut" etc etc will just get you instantly blocked.

9. I am mature women and not a girl and I am absolutely fine with talking to anyone as long as they are an Adult.

10. I am fine with anyone of any Gender chatting to me. I have a bi cross dressing husband, so pretty much am open to all wonderful people under the rainbow.

11. I like to chat to people who have at least some of the same interests.

messaging me and telling me it's not really your thing is pointless.

a few of my kinks are....but not limited too......

Heavy bondage, such as chains, cuffs, straps and straight jackets etc.

gags.

hoods.

sexy clothing such as PVC and leather.

some forced orgasm play.

some watersports

some CNC

some blackmail.

very specific humiliation, things like inappropriate clothing or being made to do things due to blackmail, or maybe being cum on or in when I can't prevent it.

(not into name calling or body writing).

I have one or two darker kinks which I will discuss if I think you can handle it 😉.

hard limits are:

gaping/stretching/fisting

heavy pain

death

blood/gore

scat

and the other very obvious one.

I promise I am open and friendly and I really appreciate you taking the time to read my post.

I look forward to hearing from you.

please read the entire post. It is a little lengthy, but will save us both wasting our time.

I am not selling/scamming or a bot.

if you can read this then my inbox is open.

I am D. I am a middle aged women who has a passion for bondage.

I love everything about it and I love to talk about it with others who share the interest.

I post regularly looking for chat partners , so you may have seen my posts before.

Things to know about me are :

1. I do not identify as a slave/sub or being owned.

2. I do not really follow the typical BDSM lifestyle or Dynamic.

3. I am just a middle aged women who is generally submissive who adores bondage.

4. I don't pigeonhole myself into a type or dynamic.

5. I am happily married but am fine chatting on here.

6. He knows I chat to people and knows it can sometimes be more than just talking about the weather etc and he's fine with it, I just don't meet or hookup.

7. I am not interested in being called mommy or being anyone's mommy Domme or online Domme/sub.

8. I am not interested in Dick Pics or overly aggressive introductions.

for example, starting messages with "hi slut" or "you sound like a naughty slut" etc etc will just get you instantly blocked.

9. I am mature women and not a girl and I am absolutely fine with talking to anyone as long as they are an Adult.

10. I am fine with anyone of any Gender chatting to me. I have a bi cross dressing husband, so pretty much am open to all wonderful people under the rainbow.

11. I like to chat to people who have at least some of the same interests.

messaging me and telling me it's not really your thing is pointless.

a few of my kinks are....but not limited too......

Heavy bondage, such as chains, cuffs, straps and straight jackets etc.

gags.

hoods.

sexy clothing such as PVC and leather.

some forced orgasm play.

some watersports

some CNC

some blackmail.

very specific humiliation, things like inappropriate clothing or being made to do things due to blackmail, or maybe being cum on or in when I can't prevent it.

(not into name calling or body writing).

I have one or two darker kinks which I will discuss if I think you can handle it 😉.

hard limits are:

gaping/stretching/fisting

heavy pain

death

blood/gore

scat

and the other very obvious one.

I promise I am open and friendly and I really appreciate you taking the time to read my post.

I look forward to hearing from you.

please read the entire post. It is a little lengthy, but will save us both wasting our time.

I am not selling/scamming or a bot.

if you can read this then my inbox is open.

I am D. I am a middle aged women who has a passion for bondage.

I love everything about it and I love to talk about it with others who share the interest.

I post regularly looking for chat partners , so you may have seen my posts before.

Things to know about me are :

1. I do not identify as a slave/sub or being owned.

2. I do not really follow the typical BDSM lifestyle or Dynamic.

3. I am just a middle aged women who is generally submissive who adores bondage.

4. I don't pigeonhole myself into a type or dynamic.

5. I am happily married but am fine chatting on here.

6. He knows I chat to people and knows it can sometimes be more than just talking about the weather etc and he's fine with it, I just don't meet or hookup.

7. I am not interested in being called mommy or being anyone's mommy Domme or online Domme/sub.

8. I am not interested in Dick Pics or overly aggressive introductions.

for example, starting messages with "hi slut" or "you sound like a naughty slut" etc etc will just get you instantly blocked.

9. I am mature women and not a girl and I am absolutely fine with talking to anyone as long as they are an Adult.

10. I am fine with anyone of any Gender chatting to me. I have a bi cross dressing husband, so pretty much am open to all wonderful people under the rainbow.

11. I like to chat to people who have at least some of the same interests.

messaging me and telling me it's not really your thing is pointless.

a few of my kinks are....but not limited too......

Heavy bondage, such as chains, cuffs, straps and straight jackets etc.

gags.

hoods.

sexy clothing such as PVC and leather.

some forced orgasm play.

some watersports

some CNC

some blackmail.

very specific humiliation, things like inappropriate clothing or being made to do things due to blackmail, or maybe being cum on or in when I can't prevent it.

(not into name calling or body writing).

I have one or two darker kinks which I will discuss if I think you can handle it 😉.

hard limits are:

gaping/stretching/fisting

heavy pain

death

blood/gore

scat

and the other very obvious one.

I promise I am open and friendly and I really appreciate you taking the time to read my post.

I look forward to hearing from you.

please read the entire post. It is a little lengthy, but will save us both wasting our time.

I am not selling/scamming or a bot.

if you can read this then my inbox is open.

I am D. I am a middle aged women who has a passion for bondage.

I love everything about it and I love to talk about it with others who share the interest.

I post regularly looking for chat partners , so you may have seen my posts before.

Things to know about me are :

1. I do not identify as a slave/sub or being owned.

2. I do not really follow the typical BDSM lifestyle or Dynamic.

3. I am just a middle aged women who is generally submissive who adores bondage.

4. I don't pigeonhole myself into a type or dynamic.

5. I am happily married but am fine chatting on here.

6. He knows I chat to people and knows it can sometimes be more than just talking about the weather etc and he's fine with it as I don't do any more than that.

7. I am not interested in being called mommy or being anyone's mommy Domme or online Domme/sub.

8. I am not interested in Dick Pics or overly aggressive introductions.

for example, starting messages with "hi slut" or "you sound like a naughty slut" etc etc will just get you instantly blocked.

9. I am mature women and not a girl and I am absolutely fine with talking to anyone as long as they are an Adult.

10. I am fine with anyone of any Gender chatting to me. I have a bi cross dressing husband, so pretty much am open to all wonderful people under the rainbow.

11. I like to chat to people who have at least some of the same interests.

messaging me and telling me it's not really your thing is pointless.

a few of my kinks are....but not limited too......

Heavy bondage, such as chains, cuffs, straps and straight jackets etc.

gags.

hoods.

sexy clothing such as PVC and leather.

some forced orgasm play.

some watersports

some CNC

some blackmail.

very specific humiliation, things like inappropriate clothing or being made to do things due to blackmail, or maybe being cum on or in when I can't prevent it.

(not into name calling or body writing).

I have one or two darker kinks which I will discuss if I think you can handle it 😉.

hard limits are:

gaping/stretching/fisting

heavy pain

death

blood/gore

scat

and the other very obvious one.

I promise I am open and friendly and I really appreciate you taking the time to read my post.

I look forward to hearing from you.

please read the entire post. It is a little lengthy, but will save us both wasting our time.

I am not selling/scamming or a bot.

if you can read this then my inbox is open.

I am D. I am a middle aged women who has a passion for bondage.

I love everything about it and I love to talk about it with others who share the interest.

I post regularly looking for chat partners , so you may have seen my posts before.

Things to know about me are :

1. I do not identify as a slave/sub or being owned.

2. I do not really follow the typical BDSM lifestyle or Dynamic.

3. I am just a middle aged women who is generally submissive who adores bondage.

4. I don't pigeonhole myself into a type or dynamic.

5. I am happily married but am fine chatting on here.

6. He knows I chat to people and knows it can sometimes be more than just talking about the weather etc and he's fine with it as I don't do any more than that.

7. I am not interested in being called mommy or being anyone's mommy Domme or online Domme/sub.

8. I am not interested in Dick Pics or overly aggressive introductions.

for example, starting messages with "hi slut" or "you sound like a naughty slut" etc etc will just get you instantly blocked.

9. I am mature women and not a girl and I am absolutely fine with talking to anyone as long as they are an Adult.

10. I am fine with anyone of any Gender chatting to me. I have a bi cross dressing husband, so pretty much am open to all wonderful people under the rainbow.

11. I like to chat to people who have at least some of the same interests.

messaging me and telling me it's not really your thing is pointless.

a few of my kinks are....but not limited too......

Heavy bondage, such as chains, cuffs, straps and straight jackets etc.

gags.

hoods.

sexy clothing such as PVC and leather.

some forced orgasm play.

some watersports

some CNC

some blackmail.

very specific humiliation, things like inappropriate clothing or being made to do things due to blackmail, or maybe being cum on or in when I can't prevent it.

(not into name calling or body writing).

I have one or two darker kinks which I will discuss if I think you can handle it 😉.

hard limits are:

gaping/stretching/fisting

heavy pain

death

blood/gore

scat

and the other very obvious one.

I promise I am open and friendly and I really appreciate you taking the time to read my post.

I look forward to hearing from you.

please read the entire post. It is a little lengthy, but will save us both wasting our time.

I am not selling/scamming or a bot.

if you can read this then my inbox is open.

I am D. I am a middle aged women who has a passion for bondage.

I love everything about it and I love to talk about it with others who share the interest.

I post regularly looking for chat partners , so you may have seen my posts before.

Things to know about me are :

1. I do not identify as a slave/sub or being owned.

2. I do not really follow the typical BDSM lifestyle or Dynamic.

3. I am just a middle aged women who is generally submissive who adores bondage.

4. I don't pigeonhole myself into a type or dynamic.

5. I am happily married but am fine chatting on here.

6. He knows I chat to people and knows it can sometimes be more than just talking about the weather etc and he's fine with it, I just don't meet or hookup.

7. I am not interested in being called mommy or being anyone's mommy Domme or online Domme/sub.

8. I am not interested in Dick Pics or overly aggressive introductions.

for example, starting messages with "hi slut" or "you sound like a naughty slut" etc etc will just get you instantly blocked.

9. I am mature women and not a girl and I am absolutely fine with talking to anyone as long as they are an Adult.

10. I am fine with anyone of any Gender chatting to me. I have a bi cross dressing husband, so pretty much am open to all wonderful people under the rainbow.

11. I like to chat to people who have at least some of the same interests.

messaging me and telling me it's not really your thing is pointless.

a few of my kinks are....but not limited too......

Heavy bondage, such as chains, cuffs, straps and straight jackets etc.

gags.

hoods.

sexy clothing such as PVC and leather.

some forced orgasm play.

some watersports

some CNC

some blackmail.

very specific humiliation, things like inappropriate clothing or being made to do things due to blackmail, or maybe being cum on or in when I can't prevent it.

(not into name calling or body writing).

I have one or two darker kinks which I will discuss if I think you can handle it 😉.

hard limits are:

gaping/stretching/fisting

heavy pain

death

blood/gore

scat

and the other very obvious one.

I promise I am open and friendly and I really appreciate you taking the time to read my post.

I look forward to hearing from you.

please read the entire post. It is a little lengthy, but will save us both wasting our time.

I am not selling/scamming or a bot.

if you can read this then my inbox is open.

I am D. I am a middle aged women who has a passion for bondage.

I love everything about it and I love to talk about it with others who share the interest.

I post regularly looking for chat partners , so you may have seen my posts before.

Things to know about me are :

1. I do not identify as a slave/sub or being owned.

2. I do not really follow the typical BDSM lifestyle or Dynamic.

3. I am just a middle aged women who is generally submissive who adores bondage.

4. I don't pigeonhole myself into a type or dynamic.

5. I am happily married but am fine chatting on here.

6. He knows I chat to people and knows it can sometimes be more than just talking about the weather etc and he's fine with it as I don't do any more than that.

7. I am not interested in being called mommy or being anyone's mommy Domme or online Domme/sub.

8. I am not interested in Dick Pics or overly aggressive introductions.

for example, starting messages with "hi slut" or "you sound like a naughty slut" etc etc will just get you instantly blocked.

9. I am mature women and not a girl and I am absolutely fine with talking to anyone as long as they are an Adult.

10. I am fine with anyone of any Gender chatting to me. I have a bi cross dressing husband, so pretty much am open to all wonderful people under the rainbow.

11. I like to chat to people who have at least some of the same interests.

messaging me and telling me it's not really your thing is pointless.

a few of my kinks are....but not limited too......

Heavy bondage, such as chains, cuffs, straps and straight jackets etc.

gags.

hoods.

sexy clothing such as PVC and leather.

some forced orgasm play.

some watersports

some CNC

some blackmail.

very specific humiliation, things like inappropriate clothing or being made to do things due to blackmail, or maybe being cum on or in when I can't prevent it.

(not into name calling or body writing).

I have one or two darker kinks which I will discuss if I think you can handle it 😉.

hard limits are:

gaping/stretching/fisting

heavy pain

death

blood/gore

scat

and the other very obvious one.

I promise I am open and friendly and I really appreciate you taking the time to read my post.

I look forward to hearing from you.