Exciting times ahead, hopefully
I’ve been with my wife for 10 years, 10 very vanilla years. About 2 years ago I brought up the idea of her playing with my ass. She was very dismissive of the idea at that point. Told her no pressure, just wanted you to know what my desires are.
Every few months since then I’ve mentioned that’s it’s still on my mind. It was acknowledged but non committal yes or no. Always I’ll think about it.
About 12 months ago she started noticing that during handjobs the further she slid her hand down below my balls the faster I would finish.
About 6 months ago she agreed to finger me. Needless to say I was super excited. The anticipation level was through the roof. I was in pure ecstasy when she started just rubbing lube around. She barely put her hand on my dick when she started inserting the first finger and BOOM, immediate finish and the fun came to an end before it really even got going. I brought up the idea of pegging, again non committal either way.
I asked for it again the next few sessions but it just never happened, it was always maybe tomorrow.
2 months ago we went out of town. She’ll sometime let her inhibitions down while we travel and stay in hotels. She was willing to finger me again, but in the shower. Water in our eyes, lube all over the floor. Legs shaking from trying not to slip slide everywhere while keeping a position that was access friendly. As you may guess it was not the most pleasurable experience but was enjoyable.
I’ve asked for it again without being in the shower a few times with no luck. She’s not a germaphobe but the idea of using fingers seems to weird her out. I suggested using toys we already own and the response was always maybe tomorrow. Tomorrow never comes.
Sent some search results and articles on pegging earlier today with a better than expected response of it’s not to horrible sounding. Asked if we could do some shopping later and pick out a strap on to use and got a yes commitment. Not gonna lie, my heart fluttered and dick twitched a little bit. We browsed through lots of options and she immediately narrowed in on one she liked and asked me to order it.
My desires from the past few years may finally be coming true in the near future. I am hopeful that she will also find enjoyment out of it so it’s not just a one and done experience.
What tips, tricks, or words of advice would you have to help ensure it’s an enjoyable, memorable, fun time for both of us?