26 [F4M] Lawyer slowly losing interest in dating… is this adulthood? 😭
Hi, I’m 26F, a lawyer, and honestly dating used to feel so much easier when I was younger. Meeting people, getting excited to know someone, flirting, long conversations, all of it felt more natural back then.
Now? It feels harder to find people I genuinely want to talk to. Sexual attraction still matters to me of course, but lately I think I value connection and conversation more. Maybe I’m just tired. Maybe work and career pressure are mixing into everything too, since I’m currently preparing for a major application.
About me: I’m petite and intentionally slim (I AM A CONSCIOUS WOMAN haha) I work out regularly, do HYROX, yoga sometimes, and play pickleball mostly to hang out with friends. I LOVE food though so it balances out haha. I’m talkative, probably funny, and I value my individuality and alone time a lot.
My love language is definitely not words of affirmation 😭 maybe quality time? peaceful coexistence? hahaha. But I do appreciate having someone to share a good conversation with at the end of the day.
I’d also like to think I’m intentional and hardworking in life. I embody magis in almost everything I do… maybe even in bed? charot.
About you: I’ve always had a thing for chinitos with sleeve tattoos. Not sure if it’s just a phase at this point hahaha. But generally I’m attracted to guys who are lean/slim/fit, but you don’t need to be super muscular.
I used to tolerate stupid but good-looking men, but honestly it’s getting exhausting 😭 so please at least know how to hold a conversation.
Am I looking for sex? Relationship? A distraction? Honestly… I DON’T KNOW HAHAHA. I’m probably just stressed and confused because of work.
But if you think we’d vibe, message me 😄 if you are looking for a right NOW, thats not me! haha
Kahibaw ko mag bisaya ug english, gamay na tagalog rapud haha!