26 [F4M] #Boston - Looking for a Long-term Soft/Pleasure/Daddy Dom
Hey there everyone! Apologizes if this is too long or not enough info in this post. I’ve never done this before, but I figured it’s worth a shot!
About me:
I’m 26, turning 27 later this month, 5’4”, and 165lbs with a few small tattoos. While I wouldn’t describe myself as thin or skinny, I’m not chubby either. Just a girl with thick thighs, an ass, and a waist (although I am actively working on gaining more muscle). I’m more than happy to exchange photos with you over messages! To help you out: I have green eyes, very pale skin, and medium length dark brown/copper hair with curtain bangs.
I’m very much an introvert and homebody. However, I will talk your ear off if we click and I love hearing other people yap too! I’m typically very independent, ambitious, and slightly anxious (I’ve been in therapy for years). I can have a hard time fully relaxing, but I do enjoy going to concerts, playing mini golf, going to escape rooms, and the occasional movie theater trip too. I’m also big on traveling and I typically have two trips planned each year! This year’s destinations are Savannah, GA and Scotland.
Other hobbies I love include: reading (as in, I own over 150 books and read over 65 books a year lol), watching crime dramas, puzzles, legos, weight lifting, and learning new fun facts through documentaries.
I’m also highly educated with three degrees. Two bachelors and one masters. I also very much love my job (despite it being very stressful at times) and have no plans to change careers or ever stay at home.
I love going to museums and different bookstores! It’s so soothing to me. I also love a good thunderstorm (if I can just stay home and watch it), but I also love sitting outside in the sun reading a good book or talking a nice walk.
What I’m looking for:
Like I stated above, I’m looking for a long term soft/pleasure/Daddy Dom who is also interested in a monogamous long term romantic relationship. While I do enjoy kink on its own, I think a connection built on shared interests, values, humor, trust, and mutual support is essential to d/s - not just power exchange. Although, with that being said, I do very much enjoy the power exchange of it too (of course, duh).
I want a man who is able to take care of me, lead me, and not hang it over my head or be a dick about it. I can be a bit of a brat, just to test limits, but I do naturally want to submit. It just takes me a bit to get to that point. I’m looking for a man who can handle my brattiness without turning it into a power struggle, get annoyed by it, or twist it into something it’s not. I’m looking for someone who’s affectionate (love physical touch), kind, empathetic, emotionally intelligent, communicative, honest, attentive, respectful, mature, but knows when to laugh and have a fun.
I’m not into ENM, cheating, being a unicorn, fwb, or short term connections. I’m also not a switch, so please don’t come here looking for that. I’m also not interested in being used for just kink or being with someone who uses kink to disguise their desire to abuse women. Respect and trust are the keys to a successful relationship. You also must be DDF and have good hygiene.
While I do have a bit of a physical type, I’ve been known to make connections with others. So if you don’t feel like you’re physically what I’m looking for, please don’t be discouraged and reach out anyway if you think we’re be a good match! With that being said, I have a preference towards men who are taller and larger than me (love being manhandled), darker hair, beards, tattoos, and I’m a sucker for chest/body hair! I do kindly request that you only message me if you are between the ages of 27-38!
Now onto the fun list, kinks:
Ddlg
Light spanking/imapct play (hands only)
Praise
Dirty talk/possessive language
Orgasm control/denial
Overstimulation
Light bondage
Sensory play
Public play
There are, of course, others that I’m interested in, but only with the right partner. Aftercare is an absolute must though.
Limits include: anal, scat, blood, face slapping, facials, bruises/permanent marks, anything more than light pain, teacher/student role play, and needles.
If you’ve made it this far, thank you for taking the time to read all of this! I really do appreciate it! If you think we’d be a good match, please don’t hesitate to reach out with some information about yourself and why you think we’d be a good fit! I just ask that you please don’t start off your message with any sexting or nudes. Well, that’s it for now, talk to you soon!
K