Wife admits it's frustrating
We have just finished having an intense sex session. We have a fucking machine that we use so we used that alot then eventually we stopped and relaxed.
We were just lying together chatting afterwards debriefing, talking about the session and sex in general and she said: "can I be really honest with you". Of course I said yes. Then she said "when we were first having sex, I was really really frustrated, you really weren't filling me up or getting deep at all. I'd pull you deeper but there was just nothing to go".
This would of spun me years ago, but now Ive fully accepted I'm small and now like it. But it was really nice to hear her be honest. I was her second boyfriend ever, but she has said previously her ex was alot bigger. Now she has alot more experience and discovered that I am an a huge outlier, but we still love each other more then ever and sex is just difference between us compared to others