u/deadbedroom85

This group of sex positive people seems to be the best place for this question, versus those of us bitter beings at the DB sub.
Our sex life is nonexistent - I’m not asking for any help with that. I did want to run something by as an alternative - I was thinking of asking my wife if I could masturbate while looking at her naked. It beats looking at porn or using my imagination, it’s fairly intimate and it might even lead to more. Anyone done anything like this? Maybe not for the same reasons I would be, just in general?
And yes, I’m aware of how pathetic this sounds.