This will be a ramble however you will get a glimpse in to who I am and how I think so buckle up butter cup you’re in for a read.
Also looking fo long term.
Me:
I seem not to be able to sit still, I like doing things and have may hobbies. Walking, crafts, baking a lot. I prefer movies over tv shows and love music.
I’ll probably tell you more but doing this over and over gets old haha
I’m a naturally positive person always find the joy and lessons in things as life is just a journey we are on, some have well lit paths others are just in the dark hoping on hope.
I’m an honest person, I say it kindly how it is and I answer questions honestly as well. I’d like to find someone who is also like this, I find it helps deepen conversations and I like to keep a safe space so that it feels real.
I also like humour. Not silly things but I dunno I like laughter
Looks wise I’m about average, I think I’m cute. I’ve been told I look wholesome (I do still think about this from time to time wondering what this means)
I’m curvy, weird but the good weird I’m not crazy.
Been in a long term relationship for almost 2 decades. Emotionally I left a few years ago, physically still here for some years for the best interest of the kids.
I do not have a dead bedroom.
Red flags about me:
They aren’t really red flags I’m just not everyone’s cup of tea
I don’t get attached to a person right away. I will probably not dote all of my attention to you at first. I need to get to know a person before I’m attracted to them and want to chat lots and feelings all those things. I’m like a semi feral cat haha so bear with me.
I am busy on weekends and replies are not plentiful then.
I am not just magically available. I like people who make plans with me.
I don’t try to be someone else I am who I am, I am very communicative.
What I am looking for:
I want something that feels real.
Like the feeling where in a perfect world I’d like to meet you Even if it will never happen
If you are going to delete your account right away DO NOT MESSAGE ME.
If you ghost after a picture swap and cannot say sorry not interested.. do not message me
Both scenarios will bring you bad luck and I will be grumpy lol. It takes a lot of energy taking to people and it’s so frustrating when someone messages you pretending to be your caliber and really they are just not it.
If you message me:
Please don’t be the jealous type. I have a few friends I have been online friends with for a few years. I am an open book about them but only if asked.
If you’re the jealous type (yes that happens, I don’t know why) I’m not your person.
I am open to more intimate chatting if the vibe is right and the connection develops that way.
I am open to voice chats and one day video chats.
I am not sure what else I could say except that I think I’m worth talking to with the right person.
I’m just looking for the right vibe hahaha
If you message me please tell me:
YOUR AGE
WHERE YOU ARE FROM
and something to snag my attention to chat with you.
Thank you!