u/despattnslut

ive really slipped up on my edging and denial lately, and i feel like i need to start working on moving that aspiring good girl flair to being a real good girl!

now my problem is, for me to keep interested in edging for hours on end, my clit needs to be engaged, so im usually rubbing my clit to edge, however, my ability to stop rubbing before I cum... isnt great.

so im setting myself a small challenge to start with! to not cum this weekend!

but now I need to find creative ways of edging myself, or good discipline not to rub till im over the edge. because the idea of going no touch is scary!!!

any help or ideas v welcome!!

well... a few days ago posted a question on what makes the difference between being chubby or fat, and whilst there were a few opinions, one of the most common answer was the point at which the belly starts to hang.

initially I was a little disappointed, as my belly, for all it protruded quite a lot over my waistband, didnt hang.

however, its almost as if my belly could sense this disappointment, as today, after a particularly calorific few weeks, I noticed it.

the fold, the belly fold leading to my hips, and my waistband disappearing beneath the dough whilst standing. its almost as if its happened overnight, that one day the punds just crossed a limit and my belly couldnt take it any more.

well i guess that's it, proof im... fat...

and a mix of excitement and trepidation for the next time I step on the scales, given its been 3 weeks since i last weighed in...

with my recent weight gain, and the noticeable changes that has come with it, one thing I'm becoming a little obsessed with is the point as which being 'chubby' turns into being fat.

I've clinged on to the chubby label for a while now, but every so often I'll be chatting with someone and describing how my body has changed and they'll suggest I've maybe gone beyond chubby...

so I guess that's my question - what signs and changes are the turning point between chubby and fat?

is it once a certain number of or size of rolls sit on the belly, when a muffin top stretches a certain number of inches over the waistband, or stretchmarks cover the skin, or is it simply the number on the scale.

maybe I might even get an answer for where I sit on the chubby to fat scale...