i feel bad hating him but it’s just the things he does. look i get he’s still growing and developing but a part of me just wished they were grown and better, you know?
i feel like my sister really doesn’t know how to take care of him and neither does his dad know but then another thing the parents always drop him off at my moms or make her pick him up from school everyday… meaning i have to see him almost everyday, and although im not the one talking care of him it’s just so stressful to have him here.
today i had to go to the hospital and my mom told me to wait till my sister comes back to pick my nephew up because my nephew doesn’t like to go out. like how is that my issue? i needed to go to the hospital and all she could think about is my stupid nephew and that actually irritated me so bad i had to call my other sister because for some reason my mom only listens to her..
as we’re about to leave my nephew starts crying about how he doesn’t want to go to the hospital because it’s going to take long, the only reason why he’s crying is because he knows it works on my mom but this time it doesn’t cause i actually had to go to the hospital, he’s six but he’s smart for his age.
that’s what my family doesn’t get, he KNOWS what he’s doing and they just want to say that he’s just six and doesn’t know better and i get in trouble
anyways, we’re at the hospital and he just keeps asking when are we leaving over and over, i’m getting fed up because we also have to pass by cvs for my medication and while at cvs he starts asking my mom for stuff and we’ve told him so many times that we’re all struggling and i told him today and my mom told me to shut up and we just kept arguing throughout cvs over my nephew and her actions because of my nephew.
this is about my mom and nephew because the both play a part in the way they both end up acting with me.
this isn’t even a one time thing, he does some much that genuinely irritates all of us but excuse it cause he’s 6, i can’t do this anymore and don’t want to see him nor do i want my mom to see him anymore, but i can’t do anything cause that’s not my place.
as selfish as this whole thing sounds he just isn’t a good kid he throws fits for almost anything and we can’t have a good time because of him, he spoils almost everything as in gifts shows surprises etc etc. he’s made me realize i hate kids especially him.