39 [F4M] #Indiana #Midwest - Discretion is TOP priority
I'm a professional who works in a high visibility, corporate role, so 100% discretion is the TOP priority here. I'm a chubby white lady... not wildly obese. But I do have big boobs and a mom bod. If that's not your thing... it's okay! No hard feelings here. Very kink friendly but I do prefer a more dominant/alpha personality. I travel occasionally for work throughout the Midwest so meeting up on occasion is possible with the right guy.
Above any particular physical feature, an ideal man to connect with for me would be someone older, emotionally intelligent but grounded. Sharp mind, dry humor, capable of real conversation beyond surface BS. Someone who notices everything, remembers the little things, challenges me intellectually...
Someone with a calm kind of authority. The type who doesn’t need to dominate a room because everyone already feels it when they walk into it. Protective without being controlling. Intense without being loud. Emotionally self-contained, but with flashes of surprising softness when they trust you. The kind of person who makes you feel safer and more nervous at the exact same time.
Full disclosure: there is a man I've worked with for years who checks every single box and I simply cannot have him. So here I am chasing that connection and feeling with someone else. I cannot and will not leave my marriage anytime soon... for many reasons. I think most of us here are in a similar situation. I'm happy to elaborate over time in conversation.
I do require an actual connection to be sexually attracted to anyone, so if you don't want to invest the time necessary for that, it's okay. Not everyone needs that!
At a minimum, I'm very happy just to have access to a space free from criticism of this path... which isn't for everyone ~🤍~