Soooo, ive noticed that I’m not really able to cum from clit stimulation and fingering — at least not the normal way. I orgasm through whats called syntribation, which is just like rubbing your thighs really tightly together so that the clit is stimulated enough to push you over the edge.
I veryyy recently started getting involved with this one guy, and we had sex for the first time the other day, but since both of us were virgins, it didnt go as planned lol. However, every time we have been together, ive made sure he’s cum, and he’s very persistent on wanting to see me cum as well (so grateful😭). I told him it’s probably not going to happen tbh and I’m lowkey worried that it’s not going to happen and he’s going to feel a bit insecure. It’s not like it feels bad when he fingers me ; on the contrary, it feels amazing, but i have to cut it short because it gets TOOOOO intense.
Ive fingered myself and tried stimulating my clit alone too, but I always back out at the peak of it because of how intense it feels. Idk how to get over that hump and idk how to actually get myself to orgasm. That’s kind of why I rely on syntribation whenever i REALLY want to get over that edge.
Pleaseee help. I genuinely have no idea on how I can get over this obstacle😭