So far I've only had success with the Aneros + do-nothing + shibby or other erotic audio + relaxation + riding the waves until they overwhelm and end either in a weakish Super O or HFWO.
I do have a Tantus P-spot with suction cup coming but was wondering; how does one achieve prostate pleasure with this? It has to be 10 fold harder to be completely relaxed whilst riding a dildo to notice the subtle good feelings the prostate produces. + riding it on the floor is also not comfortable at all compared to your bed.
Is the type of orgasm achieved this way different? When I used to use the Njoy wand I could only "milk" cum out of me.
I'm just not sure how to approach this because you have half of the sub preaching mindgasm + relaxation techniques and the other half swearing how direct and strong simulation (njoy, dildos) gets them off.
Any tips for someone who's only had small success with aneros but none with dildos and active tools?