u/iseeksubgirl

41 [M4F] #Anywhere #Paradise - Perchance to find a loving slave and a slave to love

I was born a dominant man. It is my nature and I started indulging in kink and exerting my will long before I learned about BDSM. Over time, I’ve explored my share of archetypal dynamics, I’ve also developed my own sense of things and style. I know how to teach, guide, and lead through the many thrills we’ll enjoy together.

I offer structure, discipline, and shivers, but also warmth, empathy, and tenderness. I expect integrity, kindness, honesty, sincerity, loyalty, faithfulness, and obedience. To these core values I add respect and empathy; those are a must before, during, and even after anything that may develop between us.

Us

I wish to find a meaningful connection and build a loving, if highly sexual, D/s-based bond. I hope we can be friends, lovers, and partners who care for each other. I promise to listen to, support, and shape you into both your very best version and the kind of girl I want by my side.

I expect to quickly excise control over your mind, heart, and body. I favor pushing the limits with physically and mentally strenuous tasks, alternating between playful and primal, sensuous and aggressive, gentle and volcanic. I am also fond of public humiliation, a good spanking, and uncomfortable yet exhilarating situations.

Me

I love arts and culture; enjoy travelling and writing; and like to discuss films and literature. I have strong opinions but consider myself open-minded, alternating between deeper subject discussions and light-hearted moments. I believe in balance; It's nice to be with someone you can be serious and have fun with at the same time.

The softer side of things appeals to me, but I can quickly turn on the heat. A perfectionist, I am strict, can be quite the disciplinarian, and work best with a girl looking to develop structure in her life, become sharper, and do better. I am demanding. I expect both of us to grow together.

you

I look for a kind, loving, intelligent, and empathetic girl who cares about the world and those who live in it. Your heart and soul matter most, but appearance is important to me. I am exclusively drawn to women who are height-weight proportionate, perhaps with sensuous curves on a slender frame, but still on the slimmer side of things.

Age is not a factor. Neither are studies or experience. You could hold a PHD or be barely educated; be a globetrotter or someone who's never left her hometown; a novice trying to find your way (and yourself) or a seasoned sub who's seen it all. Just be curious, earnest, and willing to learn, improve, and push yourself.

be Mine

Even from afar, I trust if we are meant to find each other, we’ll be able to form a strong union. ‘Tis could be but a temporary respite, yet perhaps we’ll build a lasting relationship. In this regard, it would help if you were open to potential relocation down the life – and a life together, perhaps.

A caveat. While not a must – and I could be flexible on this condition – I prefer to be involved with other women while you devote yourself solely to me. Though unusual, I believe these circumstances could help us build a healthier, happier connection. I’m confident you'll find submitting to me quite rewarding regardless.

Let’s play

Still with me, I see. Appreciate it. We're so close to making it all come true. Let’s start with something simple enough. Not quite my first instructions, but certainly my initial request, which I would like you to follow to a T.

1.     Introduce yourself – be detailed and mention the word cherry.

2.     Let me know what struck you about this post and made you reach out.

3.     Share a couple of pictures with me – I am a rather visual person after all.

 

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