27 [F4A] #onlineonly - sub seeking long term D/s dynamic
Hi Reddit, it’s been awhile.
I used to be on here a lot – then I entered the IRL kink world, and left this all behind for a bit. I’m back to take a quick stab at finding the dynamic that I’ve been yearning for. This is not something that I’m in a rush to find, and yeah - I know I’m going to be inundated with guys who think that they’re the right fit. Please know that I am going to take my time and vet like hell.
Now that that’s out of the way – hi! I have been active in the Chicago scene for ~3 years now. I currently host one long-standing monthly munch, a few infrequent munches for more niche groups, and a bimonthly roundtable. I prioritize kink education, and I have attended multiple kink conventions and classes throughout my time in the community. Over the years, I have been a member and/or volunteer at each of the three dungeons in the city and frequent most kink spaces.
Outside of kink, I love to read, I write prolifically (both on Fet, Substack, and a personal blog, as well as for myself), and I spend too much time on side quests. I live with my two cats, the loves of my life. I work a typical 9-5 and run around like a chicken with her head cut off outside of that, because I perpetually overcommit myself to things.
**What Am I Looking For?**
I am seeking an online only, 24/7 D/s dynamic. I find myself craving structure and satisfaction that I am currently unable to provide myself with, nor do I have the time or capacity to go seek that out IRL. What will this look like? I want rules, structure, and near-constant communication. This will not be 0-to-60, I instantly submit to you, this is something that will take time to build.
I want a D-type who will help me both with vanilla tasks (drink enough water, get enough sleep), as well as someone who will exercise control in other aspects of my life so that I feel owned (choosing my clothes, my makeup, my nail colors…). I am also looking for someone to control my remote controlled toys and plan virtual scenes with, because I miss letting my masochist out.
READ: I will NOT reply to anyone who simply says “hi.” Please explain to me why you think you might be a good fit, and let me know what your experience with D/s looks like. I will share my socials + pics once we've connected. Looking forward to chatting!