u/joeytoredo

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33 [M4F] Trying something a little different. I'm hopeful that you'll be the one!

I'll spare you the boring details. Married, brown hair, blue eyes, 6'2, and a proud dad. While I'm grateful for everything I have in my life, it almost feels as if some things came way faster than I expected and it has definitely affected my marriage. It's a story so familiar that it isn't even worth mentioning on here.

A little about me:

I have a passion for music, writing, and all things creative. Definitely consider myself an extrovert but there are days where I want to chill at home. I'm very much both a metal head and deadhead (makes no sense, I know). I'm definitely not looking for drama or to change anyone's situation either.

About you:

Between the ages of 18-26. I'm truthfully curious about what it would be like to be with someone a little younger than me. This is something I've avoided in the past but would love to explore.

It's not a deal breaker, but being 420 friendly is a major plus. I'd prefer someone attached, but single people are cool as long as you understand I'm not looking to change my situation.

If this caught your eye, feel free to reach out!

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u/joeytoredo — 8 days ago

33 [M4F] #est I never thought I would be here, but I'm craving something more.

I honestly don't even know where to begin. I could start by telling you about the dead bedroom/roommate feeling situation, but every guy says that. I'm here to sweep you off your feet the way Noah did to Allie.

A little about me:

Married dad in the northeastern United States. Brown hair, blue eyes, 6'2. I consider myself a decent looking guy, but that's obviously up to you to decide.

I have a passion for music. Been playing in bands since I was 16. My tastes vary, but I'm definitely a huge metal head. I'm also a dead head. Funny how that works. I'm also big into movies, sports, and craft beer. Also consider myself a stoner.

I definitely try to enjoy the little things in life, no matter how hard life gets.

I'm looking for someone in a similar situation who I can connect with and see where it goes. I can't remember the last time I felt serious butterflies. I want that again and I want something long term. If this caught your attention, I'd love to get to know you.

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u/joeytoredo — 16 days ago

It's the same story you've probably heard from every other guy on here. Married dad in a dead bedroom/no passion in my marriage. Most nights can be extremely lonely.

A little about me:

Brown hair, blue eyes, 6'2, average build. I love all kinds of rock music, especially metal and grunge. Also big into sports and star wars. Definitely consider myself a stoner.

I'm looking for someone in a similar situation. Someone who can relate to what I'm dealing with. I'm definitely not looking to bring drama to your life or change your situation. But I want someone who can re-ignite the flame/I can do the same for them.

That being said, I'm not sure what else to put here. It's always weird trying to talk about myself. I'm definitely an extrovert though. If this caught your eye, feel free to drop me a line!

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u/joeytoredo — 24 days ago

It's the same story we've all heard before. Married dad in a dead bedroom/passionless marriage. It's honestly so hard to describe what I'm feeling about it, but here we are.

A little about me: brown hair, blue eyes, 6'1 stoner metal head/dead head in the northeast USA with a passion for music and life. Also a big football and hockey fan. I've always had a hard time describing myself, but I definitely consider myself a social person with a lot to offer.

That being said, I'm looking for someone who isn't looking to change their situation, but to fill the void. I'm not opposed to meeting up either. I don't care what your situation is, let's just connect and find joy in one another. I look forward to hearing from you :)

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u/joeytoredo — 1 month ago