u/johndoe10001

34 [M4F] #Online #opentotravel - Confident man for the world, good boy for you (can be bad too)

Hello!

I'm a 34yo man. I got out of a long relationship last year, and I'm ready to put myself out there again, in all my capacity.

Since I'm doing a revamp of my whole love life anyway, I feel it's also time I make an active effort to look for things that I like. That's the reason I am making a post here, instead of swiping endlessly on other apps.

About me:

I'm 175cm tall, and on the slim/athletic side. Masculine, but not burly by any means. Happy to send a photo early in conversation.

I'm a software engineer. Though I've been moving more toward real estate of late, given the whole job market situation, y'know. I'm financially independent, and under no pressure from life.

About me, the submissive? Well.. I am that, and I've known for a very long time. I've explored this with a couple girlfriends in the past, one of whom was open to trying a few different things. So I have some experience. Though there's more I've read about and wish to try someday. Happy to talk more on that once we start talking.

The kind of domination that really gets me going is the gentle, sensual kind with sprinkles of "spice" all over it. Words can have as much of an effect on me as touch.

Ideally, we keep this equation between us, and to the outside world we can be a regular "50-50" couple.

About you:

Physical attraction is important to me. And I find myself to be more into the petite-athletic range. Other than that, I'd love to hear what you're into, the kind of domination you enjoy and see if we align. It's not enough for me to have my kinks met. If I am unable to make you happy, I wouldn't be either. Maybe there will be room for some give and take, and ideally we just like the exact same things. I'd love to talk about all that and see if we see eye to eye.

Online or in person?

Well. I believe in feeling things. So if we start talking and there is a vibe which makes us feel that we have to meet, I'd be happy to try and work out a plan. I'm not averse to flying to you if we've built the trust.

In conclusion:

I've tried to keep things as brief as possible. Because the main alignment will be needed in the energy that will exist between us when we talk. So if you like what you see, I'd love to hear from you. If not, have a nice day anyway! :)

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u/johndoe10001 — 3 days ago

Imagine your favorite women's MMA fighter. And then you meet her.

There is a real MMA fighter who's the inspiration behind this story. I saw her entrance at a press conference last year and couldn't get the picture out of my head. Later that evening, I began writing a story and now it's my top rated story on Literotica -

Kate 'The Amazon' Bender

Let me know what you think. And if you wish, take a guess as to who it might be. Fair warning, the answer is very easy once you piece all the clues together.

Happy weekend, and happy reading!

u/johndoe10001 — 8 days ago

Hello!

I don't often post here. But feeling a little extra submissive today. Maybe a little bratty too but I doubt I'd keep that up for too long (the brattiness, not that).

Soo.. I'm here. Looking for someone who may find herself in this mood. I'd be happy to let you touch me, grab whatever you like, say mean things, turn me into a little whore and play with me until we're both done and can take no more.

The only thing I ask is that you write properly. Don't be high and mighty before we start playing. Don't be an AH. Respect me as a person, even if you spend 99% of the conversation disrespecting me. This is kink play for me, not an invitation for you to be a terrible person.

If you think we're on the same page, send me a message. And I'll respond in kind. I like a fun, casual, playful, flirty vibe. But don't let that box you in. The constraints here would only be for me, once we start playing 😉

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u/johndoe10001 — 24 days ago

Hi there. I am trying to find which genres are very popular within femdom. Cuckolding is a clear winner it seems, but what are some other sought after femdom themes?

Here's my guess based on some stories I've published -

Cuckolding

Pegging

Petite girl/Muscular guy

Chastity

Boytoy (?)

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Feel free to let me know if I've missed something entirely. Or if there's another theme you'd like to see explored.

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u/johndoe10001 — 27 days ago