u/johnnie_-_

Here we go again. Never really know how to start these things without sounding either too serious or like I’ve copied everyone else here.

Married, but if I’m honest, the lack of attention, affection and just feeling wanted anymore has started getting to me. It’s less fighting or drama and more that quiet loneliness when you realise you’re existing beside someone rather than with them.

I miss the excitement. The chemistry. The flirting that slowly builds into something more. The messages that make your day better, the sneaking away to reply properly, the voice notes you replay because you liked hearing them a bit too much.

I want that connection where the conversation doesn’t feel forced. Where hours disappear because you’re both genuinely into it. And yes, I miss the sexual side too. Not looking to rush into anything explicit straight away, but I do want that build-up, the tension, the mutual attraction where you’re both secretly thinking about ripping each other’s clothes off eventually.

About me: I look after myself, stay active, gym regularly and try to keep in decent shape. Would definitely finish your leftovers though.

I’d love someone who wants to exchange voice notes, pictures, random thoughts throughout the day, and just be that little bit of excitement for each other again.

I’ve spoken to some lovely women on here before, but it either turns into polite small talk or the classic disappearing act out of nowhere. I get it, this place is chaos sometimes, but it would be nice to find someone who actually wants to build something consistent.

Ideally UK based, or at least close enough time-zone-wise that we can actually enjoy talking without one of us replying half asleep six hours later.

Anyway… if any of this sounds familiar, send me a message. Tell me something real about yourself. What you’re missing, what you crave.

Married, but it’s drifted into something comfortable rather than exciting. No drama, no big story, just that quiet sense that something’s not quite there anymore.

I have a feeling I’m not the only one who misses it… the little things. The ridiculous grin at your phone you try to hide. The half laugh at a message you probably shouldn’t enjoy as much as you do. That spark that turns a normal day into something a bit more interesting.

Not looking to turn lives upside down. Just hoping to find someone in a similar place who understands the balance, and misses that feeling too.

About me: I stay active, take care of myself, and like keeping fit. Usually have a book on the go, and music is a big part of my day. I’ll probably ask what you’re listening to and judge you only a little.

Connection matters more than anything else. Age and location aren’t a big deal if we click and there’s that natural pull.

Looking for something easy, playful, with a bit of teasing and just enough chemistry to keep us both coming back for more.

If this sounds familiar, send me a message. Tell me something small that makes you smile more than it should.