u/jolow88

Hey there. I’m a 38 year old single dad from NE Ohio looking to meet someone new and see where things go. I’m not in a rush for anything specific, but I am looking with intention and for someone to build a future with.

A little about me: I’ve been focusing a lot on improving myself lately — gym, health, and getting my life in a good place. I’m also someone who enjoys writing and creative stuff and art. Music and live shows are a big thing for me as well and have become a hobby of mine. I like a wide range but I particularly enjoy reggae rock and metal.

Personality-wise I’m pretty laid back and thoughtful. I’m an emotionally grounded and easy going individual. I’m also a deep thinker, and am very emotionally in tune with myself. I like deeper conversations more than small talk, but I’m also perfectly happy joking around and just enjoying someone else’s company.

Ideally I’d like to meet someone who’s genuine, emotionally mature and secure, and can communicate. Attraction matters of course, but personality and connection matter more to me. I’m genuinely interested in meeting someone with the potential to moving to something in real life. Age isn’t a huge factor but I would prefer to keep it somewhere in the age range of 27-47. I have no desire to keep this specifically to an online only dynamic, so please keep that in mind when messaging me. I would prefer to meet someone from not too far away from where I’m from, because I am looking for something to be in person eventually. I’d rather keep conversations to within a reasonable range of where I live. Also….no men please. I do not swing that way.

If you’re in Ohio or nearby and want to chat, can hold a conversation, please feel free to reach out. Have a great night 🙂

Hey there. I’m a 38-year-old single dad from NE Ohio looking to meet someone new and see where things go. I’m interested in seeing who is out there, as I am dating with intention and looking for something that could grow into a real, long-term connection.

A little about me: I’ve been focusing a lot on improving myself lately — gym, health, and getting my life in a good place. I’m also someone who enjoys writing, creativity, and art. Music and live shows are a big part of my life, especially reggae rock and metal.

Personality-wise, I’m laid back, thoughtful, and emotionally grounded. I’m a deep thinker, and I’m someone who values communication and self-awareness. I enjoy deeper conversations, but I also like to joke around and just enjoy someone’s company.

I lean toward a pleasure-based dynamic and identify with a pleasure Dom / Daddy Dom style. For me, that means connection, trust, communication, and mutual exploration are key. I value keeping a healthy separation between everyday life and the dynamic, while still building something real outside of it. I’m open to exploring dynamics that develop naturally over time with the right person. There are many other things I’m interested in as well, which I’d rather save for talking about later.

Ideally, I’d like to meet someone who’s genuine, emotionally mature, and able to communicate openly. Attraction matters, but connection and compatibility matter more. I’m interested in something that can move into real life—not just stay online.

Location does matter. I’d prefer someone relatively close to NE Ohio, but I’m open to some distance if the goal is something real and eventually in-person. Age isn’t a huge factor, but somewhere in a similar range is ideal.

Also… no men please—I’m only interested in women.

If you’re in Ohio or nearby, can hold a conversation, and this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. Have a great night 🙂

I’m a 38-year-old single dad from NE Ohio, at a point in life where I know what I’m looking for, and it’s not endless small talk or something that stays online forever.

I want to find something real. I’m looking for a real genuine connection with depth and love. Im emotionally grounded and aware of what I’m looking for in someone.

Lately I’ve been focused on improving myself. Being in the gym, my health, and getting my life where I want it. I stay active, get out to concerts (big into reggae rock and metal), and I also write and enjoy creative outlets.

Personality-wise, I’m laid back but not passive. I like real conversation, I can joke around, and I show up when it matters. Im a deep thinker and I enjoy meaningful conversations. I’m not here to chase or carry a conversation—if there’s mutual interest, it’ll be obvious.

I’m looking for someone who: is genuine, emotionally aware, can communicate, and actually wants something that leads somewhere

I’m open to meeting in real life—so ideally you’re within a reasonable distance of NE Ohio.

If that sounds like you, feel free to reach out. Maybe tell me who your favorite band is😊.