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Image 1 — Fresh PA - Update and concerns
Image 2 — Fresh PA - Update and concerns

Fresh PA - Update and concerns

It's time for an update.
Day 5, blood is gone. Some discomfort when urinating but I have successfully did it without sitting and without making a complete mess because everything tends to go to the right (I will come back to that). So far, no full erection occurred because the moment it goes up, it hurts a bit more and it goes down.

As I mentioned in the my original post, the piercing had to go next to the frenulum tissue which is on the hefty side. My concern here is if the placement is right or if it's way off. I am not sure since I haven't seen how the whole thing behaves when fully erect.

When I stand and look at it from above, the ring goes to the right to the point of triggering my OCD and forcing the ring to behave! In the 2nd photo, I pulled the frenulum tissue aside to show there was a bit of room to go more to the center. I asked the piercer about it and he said he did the piercing as close as it should because that tissue in the middle will expand when erect. It seems like ages since the last time I noticed exactly what happens there during an erection but that tissue does not expand and get tight as a usual uncut penis because it is not uncut. So, I tried to remember how it behaves and most likely it does what you can see in the 1st photo, it gets pulled down mostly.

My other concern is that the ring being misaligned, it will constantly push against one side of the urethra wall only. A 6g ring is one thing but how this will translate when it's a 0g? I told my piercer I want to go to 0-00g and maybe he allowed some room with that in mind. I will see him tomorrow and I don't want to sound irrational about something that is otherwise very exciting.

u/joysteeq — 5 days ago

Too excited with my fresh PA.

Nothing fancy here, just wanted to share my excitement from having my PA done today. I wanted it for too long and finally I said do it already and here I am! It was a bit painful to be honest despite my high pain tolerance. Maybe it's because of the 4mm hole? from what I read it's considered big for a beginner. The piercer showed me the needle only after it was done - good choice!
I am also concerned it's off center and maybe it could be squeezed a bit more next to the frenulum tissue but I guess going bigger in the long run requires a bit more space or the frenulum would be dragged/pushed to the limit if that makes any sense? I told the piercer I plan to stretch to at least 8mm (0g).

Curious though: how you guys managed to control yourself during the first few days where you are not supposed to play with it? I mean, even scrolling on this thread got me too excited, especially when visualizing what mine would look like in a year or so. And then I said to myself stop it now! it hurts! It's an exercise in one's force of will for sure.

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u/joysteeq — 9 days ago