u/jurassic2319
▲ 33 r/mommydom
Are "dad bods" dealbreakers?
Been discouraged lately. I get through a nice talking phase, then when it comes to physical reveals I get turned away or ghosted. I'm a work in progress, I'll admit, but I'm not *ugly*. I'm cuddly, a good communicator, enthusiastic, eager to please, but also... a little husky. Is that really a dealbreaker? Does it give too much of a "daddy" impression to allow people to change mindsets about me? I just feel a little lost...
u/jurassic2319 — 11 days ago
▲ 155 r/DaddysDarkFiction
If you don't believe it yet, you need more lap time.
u/jurassic2319 — 18 days ago
▲ 55 r/mommydom
So I recently discovered Adult Nursing Relationships and have been slowly creeping down that rabbit hole... but I also really appreciate and embrace the mommy/son dynamic. It feels like a natural fit, but a few times when I've brought it up, it gets turned down. Either she's not into it or she wants to determine the "stages" of the relationship. But I'm worried if I seek an ANR partner she might not be into the mommy component. Has anyone else experienced something similar? I just feel stuck navigating two things that should work together but haven't yet for whatever reason. Thanks 🙈
u/jurassic2319 — 18 days ago
At our deepest core, we want to either be in Total control, or give up Total control. That's our innermost animal learning how to free itself in a channeled, productive way. Being a pet isn't about dressing up, having a wild time in the bedroom, then moving on. It's a commitment. A choice. To learn to trust your master and believe he has your best interests at heart. That when he's training you, it's to be the best you can be. That when he punishes you, it's to improve and mold you into his perfect pet. When he pats you on the head, gives you treats, new toys, new collars, takes you on walks, it's his way of saying he's proud of the progress you've made. None of this happens day one. It should never be expected to. But you have to KNOW it's what you want so neither of you is wasting the other's time. Because once that trust reaches 100%, both ways, something truly new, unique, and special only to you, becomes the best thing that ever happened to you. Embrace it. Want it. And let the rest follow with time, patience, and communication.
u/jurassic2319 — 19 days ago