u/juslooking90

So I've been thinking about going to Secrets but I'm a single male that's inexperienced in the lifestyle and I'm very much so an introvert when it comes to starting a conversation with strangers. I don't have a problem talking to someone who starts a convo with me however and I'm very open sexually so I'm not introverted in that sense.

I'm not going there with the intention to have sex necessarily I've just always wanted to experience an openly sexual/orgy like event or atmosphere in general and want to try something new.

I guess what I'd like to know is how good/bad of an idea would it be for someone like me to go to a place like Secrets? And how realistic is it that I'll be approached by someone? Not necessarily approached with the intention of having sex just approached in general so I'll have someone to talk to haha!

I can fly for free so on my off days (usually Wednesdays and Thursdays as of right now) I can come down there and stay overnight practically whenever I want so if there's anyone out there who wants to build some sort of relationship or meet me there at some point feel free to let me know!

A little about me looks wise: I'm 36, average/above average face wise but on the short side and overweight to be honest 😭 possibly my saving grace is that I'm black and have what most would consider a BBC however 😂

Someone talk me into or out of this idea...