u/just4thenightxx

This is a bit embarrassing for me to talk about, but I’ve always been curious about BDSM. For a long time I was too shy to really explore those feelings, but as I’ve grown older, I keep finding myself drawn back to it. I’ve even started taking quizzes and reading articles to understand it better.The problem is that I still feel lost about how to move forward or where to start. In my country, it’s not really recognized or openly talked about, so I feel pretty alone with this. I guess I’m just looking for advice on the best ways to safely explore BDSM as a beginner, and possibly how to find a trustworthy partner who’s experienced and understanding.