So for context, our sex life is pretty good. it’s kind of surprising, given that we are both overweight and I am a bit below average length (like 5 inches), but lately we’ve been running into a bit of an issue. She always cums first, sometimes even twice before I do, but after even just like 10-15 minutes she just gets so lubricated that I can’t really feel anything and have a hard time finishing. I am really happy to please her and very glad that she always finishes first, and in the very rare occasion I finish first, I always finish her with my fingers, but the wetness just makes it difficult for me to finish. (She also has a hard time helping me finish outside of vaginal sex).
We have tried less or even barely any foreplay, but that really only delays it a little bit. Does anyone have any suggestions or advice?