Been in the pickup game for 8 Years and after thousands of cold-ish approaches, social circle game, online dating, traveling, a few lays, I can confidently say three of the most painful things stopping men from their true dating potential.
- Giving non sexual attention hoping for sex. Time, money, trauma dumping, late night phone calls just for her to fu€k a dude she met at the bar last week (HURTS LIKE GETTING SH0T LITERALLY don’t recommend)
- Getting curved multiple times by different girls
- Getting embarrassed in a social circle/ online
And the only way SUSTAINABLE way through this for most men is to
Trick with INTENTION 💸💵💰 Not dates to “see where this goes”, like full blown TRICKING. 👛👠 A male model I was cool with in Miami literally only surrounds him self with strippers because he says they’re easier to be around. Money is a universal love language while looks are (somewhat) subjective and change over time. Your favorite rappers, singers, athletes they’re (mostly) all tricking.
Looksmaxxing (OBVIOUSLY) and waiting for choosing signals hoping you’re right. A good indicator is if you can see your abs or not if you can you’re probably some what hot at the very least. Shouldnt be too hard to find someone she may not be the best tho, and looks still vary person to person.
Become Famous
Unfortunately, game is a short term solution meant to sell hope and shortcuts, but has for the most part been largely unsustainable for most guys and can absolutely destroy your reputation (again unless you’re spending)
Usually women once you initiate if they really want you will make it easy for you to do every thing right, especially if you’re spending 🤣💰or if you’re simply their type.
Good luck, theres always hope, stay in school so you can take that trip to Columbia or afford that hair transplant ❤️❤️❤️