u/justheretolurk1963

My wife is my keyholder. She agreed to it a few months ago and has increased her enthusiasm for it since.

I’m locked most of the time. Work requires me to be unlocked when I sign up for overtime that isn’t doing my regular job. So those days I’m unlocked, and also if our grandkids come for a visit.

On Friday my wife and I were home alone and she said, Go take a shower and we can have sex before you go run errands. So, I grabbed the key from the bedroom where it normally hangs when we are both at home and went and showered after unlocking myself. I groomed the area well, shaving clean since it had been a few days since I last shaved.
When I came to the bedroom, she was finishing up her shower and came in and saw me laying in the bed without my cage on. She asked, Did you unlock without my permission? I kind of laughed and said, I wanted to be clean and well groomed for you.
She wasn’t laughing, nor did she have a smile on her face. She instead grabbed the crop we have that has feathers on one end and the leather piece on the other. She slipped my ass harder than I thought she would and said, You don’t unlock yourself unless I say you can. Then she slapped my ass again.

We made love, and everything seemed normal. But, when we’d cleaned up she said, Put it back on. She pointed to the key on the dresser and said, Now!
I smiled and put it back on and she said, Mother’s Day is Sunday, maybe I’ll let you eat me, but you aren’t cumming for a very long time. Maybe you’ll learn your lesson and never unlock yourself without my permission.

Yesterday, we did a ton of yard work. I wasn’t allowed out of my cage. The whole day was a bit uncomfortable at times as I bent and kneeled and carried things outside. I’ve pressed myself against her letting her feel the cage, but she’s totally ignored all of that. She did say last night, Tomorrow you’ll eat me, but you’re not going to cum. Don’t forget I’m leaving for a few days on Wednesday and you’ll be locked the whole time I’m gone. If you cheat the cage and make yourself cum with a vibrator, I’ll make sure you never have a proper orgasm again.

This is a side of her I’ve been looking for. She was always kind of happy go lucky about holding the key and making me lock up. The mistake of self unlocking unleashed a different side of her. Can’t wait to see where this leads.

As the title asks, how?

I know communication is key. However, I’ve communicated that I’d like to be denied more. The orgasms I have after a week to 10 days are so good. I’d like it to be more like 2 weeks or more.
My wife is my keyholder and sometimes I just say that I’d like to eat her and she’ll grab the key and hand it to me. I tell her I’ll stay locked up, but after she’s had a few orgasms from me eating her, she gives me the key and says to unlock myself.
I tell her I’d like to be denied, but she says, I control your orgasms, I want your cock. I end up cumming most of the time. Sometimes, if it’s been a rough couple of days t work I’ll tell her I can’t finish because I’m exhausted. Which is normally true.

Those orgasms that come after denial are so good. I want that.

We aren’t in a FLR and when she says she controls my orgasms, it’s because she doesn’t want me masturbating. That lead to a lot of problems between us, so I am locked to prevent that.

Anyone had your keyholder not want to deny you?