u/k1n9_nothing

So I've started to learn to put up with and even kind of enjoy the blue balls. My next issue is how to deal with chafing.

I think I have my base ring size down as any smaller and it gets too painful and any looser and my balls slip too easily while on the move in the heat.

I'm having trouble dealing with chafing and pinching around the base ring as it digs into my premium/ scrotum on the bottom which creates a high friction and pinch points when I'm moving

I've tried petroleum and wearing my underwear tight and that helps but it's still untenable with the way that I have to move for work.

I'm using a low quality metal cage while I dial in what I want. The welds on the cage are polished but still visible and that creates a little discomfort between my dick and balls but that can be fixed when I upgrade and isn't a huge concern.

The ring is fairly well polished but there are some very fine brush marks on the perineum side. It is gently curved toward the back

Are there any products or methods that you guys use to deal with this? I'm very interested in going long term with this but still have a few kinks (lol) to work out.

My wife and I are getting into chastity play together and I've been doing it solo for a long time. I think I've got my base ring dialed in and I just got my first stainless device with a nub cage.

Something that I've noticed is that after 4-5 days if I become truly aroused it can take days for the pain of blue balls to go away. I'm keeping my eyes out for obvious signs of danger (cold or purple/ blue coloration) but I have to be moderately active for work and my schedule is pretty busy so the pain is rather inconvenient for a game that we play once a week.

I'm very interested in long term chastity but I need some mechanical/ mental ways to deal with the blues.