community spaces for littles/middles who don't wear diapers?
hiya friends! i'm relatively new to the mdlg space, i've been playing with my caregiver for about 8 months now, and i'm trying to get into more community spaces, but i'm having a lot of trouble finding spaces that aren't super emphatic on diapers.
to be clear, i'm totally okay around folks who do wear and it's not like i think it's wrong or bad or anything. stuff that goes into the potty is a red line for me personally but everyone i've met in the community so far is alright at maintaining that boundary (though i do wish people were better at tagging it in art and photos sometimes). the trouble is it feels like a lot of communities are really focused on that part of the dynamic, or at the very least lean a lot littler than where i end up regressing to.
i sorta want a space where people generally talk about the parts of agere kink that aren't related to wearing diapers. i'm way more into the headspace than i am into the physical dynamics--for me it's more about feeling small and thinking small than it is about how i look or what i wear.
for context, i think i'm closer to what folks would consider middlespace, which is to say between 4 and 8. i call my cg my teacher and we really focus on hypnosis as an agere mechanism. are there communities where that kind of dynamic is generally centered rather than ABDL dynamics?
thank you very very very much in advance! i really appreciate you for even just reading this <3