I'm 38. 3 kids. A good but not so demanding job. I'm in shape. Live near the beach. My bedroom...it's not dead per se...but what was already not matching my drive and high libido is withering away while I'm still in my prime.
I'm looking for someone playful, someone to flirt with...a fling that gets me excited to open my phone. The thrill of sneaking around and spending time with someone new...
You: a mutual attraction between the both of us. Energy is everything, but I definitely favor someone who takes care of their health or lives somewhat of an active lifestyle. That said, I like all shapes and sizes. Hopefully also in a similar situation: married with kids.
Me: I'm 5'10. Been told I am handsome many a times. I have an athletic build (often get mistaken for a light heavyweight professional fighter). Tan, black hair/brown eyes. I'm half Polynesian and half Spanish. Very tattooed. I surf. I used to play in a rock band, and love the outdoors/hiking with my big ass dog.
Communication: Start here. Lead to Snapchat (personally the best for me current and past to stay discreet). I've done this before and had a lovely connection that had to end it when she got pregnant with her 2nd child. I'm actively searching.
Send me a DM with your favorite artist that you're currently listening to and let's chat :)