It loves objectification and it strives to be the best toy it can.
What would you do with it if it was yours?
Please note, this is a toy and is referred to as it/it's.
Edit: objectify in the comments! It wants to be discussed.
It gets all sorts of wound up watching you talk about it, so please pass on all your thoughts!
If you're feeling generous, you can give it up to 5 mins of touching. Or don't and just comment!
Ant particularly interesting ideas may well become tasks for it in the near future, so get creative!
Also, it is a toy, so please use it or toy to describe it.
I think this is an interesting kink. Hard to pull of due to the obvious problems around actual blackmail! It is incredible to get into the mind of someone into this.
Control is fun, I love having some, and you love giving it over, but it's so much more than that!
The intimacy of knowing things about the person I'm talking with.
The uneven power balance, and the negotiations that it causes.
I've found incredible satisfaction, figuring out which bit of this kink you're interested in.
Do you enjoy the hunt? Slowly seeding info and worrying if it's finally too much?
Or the capture, giving over more and more of yourself, knowing its too late?
Or is it the control? Once caught, you almost don't have to worry! Instructions appear, and it's your job to obey.
If some or all of that is something you'd like to explore about yourself, I'd love to discuss it.
But I'd love for you to live it more!
I enjoy the chats and posts from all the poor denied folks that are here, and it has me thinking at the moment.
Why do you do it?
By this I mean, which of the various reasons cited do *you* deny yourself, or have yourself denied?
I've noticed a few common themes, and to be clear, i think they're all fantastic, and love hearing the different perspectives and reasons.
I'm going to list all the reasons I can remember being told. I'm interested; did I miss any, and do any particularly resonate?
Reasons that I've discussed or seen, feel like they're in a few broad categories, and with ever more specific reasons therein.
It seems that some folks here love how feels in the build up, and try to stay that way.
Some folks love how the eventual release is so much better and so special.
And some folks really don't like having to give up orgasms, and that's why they love it!
Obviously there's more nuance to that.
It's a great way to hand over control to someone else.
It's an amazing way for play to be at your fingertips (or not for those on no touch!)
Some of you just prefer the edge to dealing with the comedown of cumming.
And I think it's all so much fun.
So to those of you struggling only an hour in and going our your mind.
To those of you who have a set time and count down the days to the next release.
To those of you on some incredible streaks, be they big numbers, or just big numbers to you.
What do you think is the reason you enjoy this?