u/khalidbahgdad

I'm (35) years old, and my girlfriend (26). I've tried to convince her to have anal sex with me, but she's hesitant because she's a doctor. She says my penis is too wide (5.7) and it will tear her anus, and I won't be able to control bowel movements and gas.

I'd appreciate advice and help from those with experience; she'll be reading the comments. She loves me but doesn't like pain, and I'm very worried about her.

When engaging in anal sex 4 times a week, 1) does it cause damage to the anus, 2) does it cause loss of control over gas, and 3) does it cause feces.