u/khotchilivibe

let's skip the part where i tell you everything.

triple major (cs, comp eng, literary journalism) with a bioinformatics minor at a UC school in socal. south asian, portuguese. bisexual. family has been around long enough that certain things just... are. i don't lead with it, but you'll probably notice.

my life moves fast by design. i write, i build, i shoot, i code. i caught most of the 2025 f1 calendar in person. mclaren. you can guess the rest. concerts, music fests, races, i show up for the thing itself, not the crowd. i'm an introvert who moves through the world in a very specific way, and i've made peace with that.

chronically online, deeply nerdy, and i have a take on basically everything. hand me a topic and i'll probably have something to say about it. i like people who push back.

i have a full life. a real one. what i'm looking for is someone who fits into that honestly, not someone who needs to be the center of it or who needs me to be the center of theirs.

exclusive. intentional. no marriage timelines right now. if it ever comes up, it's something for when i'm settled professionally and we've had years together first. i'm 20, 21 in june. my career is my north star right now and whoever i'm with should understand that completely.

i'm demisexual, which means connection comes before anything physical, always. i'm also both anxious and avoidant, which i say upfront because i'd rather you know than be surprised. i take space sometimes to regroup, and i'll always let you know when i do. i'm not disappearing. i'm just someone who needs to breathe.

what moves me is depth. how you think. what you're building. what keeps you up at night.

i prefer asian partners, and strongly prefer cs or engineering backgrounds. maturity reads louder than age, but please be 20-27.

on location: i'm in socal for school, bay area is home and where i'm headed after grad. california preferred, bay area ideally, but i understand timelines shift.

if your intro is bland, i probably won't respond. not to be harsh. i just know what kind of energy i'm looking for, and i'll recognize it.

tell me something that makes you worth knowing.

let's skip the part where i tell you everything.

triple major (cs, comp eng, literary journalism) with a bioinformatics minor at a UC school in socal. south asian, portuguese. bisexual. family has been around long enough that certain things just... are. i don't lead with it, but you'll probably notice.

my life moves fast by design. i write, i build, i shoot, i code. i caught most of the 2025 f1 calendar in person. mclaren. you can guess the rest. concerts, music fests, races, i show up for the thing itself, not the crowd. i'm an introvert who moves through the world in a very specific way, and i've made peace with that.

chronically online, deeply nerdy, and i have a take on basically everything. hand me a topic and i'll probably have something to say about it. i like people who push back.

i have a full life. a real one. what i'm looking for is someone who fits into that honestly, not someone who needs to be the center of it or who needs me to be the center of theirs.

exclusive. intentional. no marriage timelines right now. if it ever comes up, it's something for when i'm settled professionally and we've had years together first. i'm 20, 21 in june. my career is my north star right now and whoever i'm with should understand that completely.

i'm demisexual, which means connection comes before anything physical, always. i'm also both anxious and avoidant, which i say upfront because i'd rather you know than be surprised. i take space sometimes to regroup, and i'll always let you know when i do. i'm not disappearing. i'm just someone who needs to breathe.

what moves me is depth. how you think. what you're building. what keeps you up at night.

i prefer asian partners, and strongly prefer cs or engineering backgrounds. maturity reads louder than age, but please be 20-27.

on location: i'm in socal for school, bay area is home and where i'm headed after grad. california preferred, bay area ideally, but i understand timelines shift.

if your intro is bland, i probably won't respond. not to be harsh. i just know what kind of energy i'm looking for, and i'll recognize it.

tell me something that makes you worth knowing.