Hello all! I am a trans woman on HRT with a cis woman partner. Since starting HRT my penis size has decreased and that, combined with my partner's large butt, have made some positions (specifically positions where I am behind her) very difficult to achieve.
I am looking into a penis extender to solve that issue for us as we both want to be able to achieve those positions again and I have struggled to find exactly what I am looking for. Primarily I am looking for something that does NOT look realistic. I don't want anything skin colored, with veins, or with too defined a head as that can make me feel dysphoric. I am hoping to find something smooth, solid colored (black, pink, purple, blue, doesn't matter. Just not skin toned), and approximately 9 to 10 inches in length. I would also obviously like it to be silicone, body safe, and easily washable. If it vibrates as well that's great, but absolutely not a requirement. Budget is up to about $100, but if it's something high quality that will last and fits my other criteria I am absolutely willing to stretch that a bit.
This is the best I have found so far in my search, but the lack of reviews and questionable reviews on the brand's other toys have me somewhat skeptical. Everything else I find is either very realistic or jelly rubber, which is a hard no for me. I am hoping someone else has something I just haven't been able to find yet.
Thanks for your help!