u/lilbbki

idk if anyone here has heard of or practices law of assumption but i find it amazing how this part of my identity fuels my domme identity so much

in finding law of assumption i’ve fallen so much more in love with myself and life in general. learning the notion(s) that *i am whoever i assume/decide i am, that i am limitless, that i am the source/god, that life is whatever i assume it is because reality is created through repeated awareness/perception* was so freeing.

before, i used to scoff at the concept of repeating affirmations to myself (“oh that’s just mumbo jumbo. words won’t make me feel better about myself or change my life”- not knowing this was an assumption which was perpetuating the reality i was experiencing) but after finding loa & actually just trying it, i actually noticed changes in how i perceive myself and my life. i became aware and took stock of the assumptions (“good” and “bad”) i had about myself, the people in my life, the people in the world at large, and life in general. i actually started feeling the confidence i was saying i have. i actually started seeing the beauty i was saying i possess. i actually started receiving the opportunities i said were meant for me and would fall into my lap. my man who hadn’t been my man but i knew was my man became my man 😭🤣 i became the great mom i always knew i’d be to the cute ass baby i always knew i’d have and who i then knew i’d have w my man once i met him.

the control i have over my life, who is allowed a spot + how they show up in it, and the things that happen to me became more and more apparent the more and more i focused on it. with this growing sense of control came a growing sense of confidence. this naturally lent itself to my already somewhat dominant personality, which had, for a long time until my discovery of loa, been sullied and weakened by an upbringing based on people pleasing and emotionally shrinking.

through what i’ve learned from finding and practicing loa, i was able to expunge the limiting beliefs and self-destructive assumptions that so many of us are force-fed all our lives. i’ve reset my self concept and now see myself for who i truly am- the beautiful, radiant, confident, intelligent, prosperous, spoiled princess goddess i’ve always been!

all that’s to say, i manifested who i am including being a domme and im excited for the experiences in store for me! 🧚🏾‍♀️💗

idk if this is a normal dynamic in findom/if anyone does this but i’d love to have like a harem of subs. i just imagined having a gc of my subs and like having them compete for my attention.

like let’s play a game of who can guess what number im thinking of and send it first. who can simp the hardest for me just for the possibility of an inkling of praise. a spin the wheel game where i choose one of em to be donkey of the week to be overly humiliated and drained more than the others, making the others more jealous and mindfucked. (not me feeling sumn just from thinking about it rn lmao)

but yeah just fun shit lol like i just imagine that scene from finding nemo where the pelicans are like “mine mine mine” lmaoo