Been seeing a lot of posts and comments from men claiming they've been "pussy free" for years. This blows my mind!
When I've been productive and attentive outside the bedroom, my wife will be kind enough indulge me with a femdom type of session (usually pegging/orgasm denial/impact play) once or twice a month depending on schedule and circumstance (we have kids).
But 90% of our intimacy is regular foreplay (sensual making out, lots of touch, oral), followed by her unlocking my cage, and us having amazing sex where we both finish. When we're having sex, I'm the more "dominant" one because that's her preference in the bedroom. I don't "clean my own mess" like i see mentioned in here a lot. We either clean up with a towel or hop in the shower.
I feel like this is probably the most common dynamic when it comes to intimacy in a FLR. Fellow subs, are you still having good ole' regular sex with your partners?