u/lucky_lolaa

How to avoid burnout as a submissive

I’ve always been more inclined to be submissive and am in my first dom/sub dynamic. it is really fun and he’s a great master, but i’m kind of exhausted. it’s fun pleasing him. i’m really enjoying the tasks and it feels good to put in the work but I’m worried I haven’t gotten enough done besides sex stuff in these past couple of days and I really can’t focus well when Im horny.

naturally i push myself because i want to be the best so I always want to be ready. he’s not forcing me to do anything but i feel like im setting my own bar so high in the beginning that this level of engagement is unsustainable in the long run.

What has your experience been in sub/dom dynamics? What are some ways to not burn out as a submissive? How do I set boundaries while still serving him?

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u/lucky_lolaa — 6 days ago

What are some of your favorite words and placements for bodywriting?

So far I like “doll” “slut” “whore” “fuckdoll” “property of master” “insert here” “bite me” “suck me” “fuck me” “desperate for cock” “cum slut” “owned” “horny” “obedient” “good girl” “ready for use” “harder”. As a submissive, I like body writing because it makes me feel less in control and that I can fully give in to the experience, almost like a costume of sorts. However, I’m not a huge fan of degrading so I feel like there’s a careful balance.

what are some terms you like to use? what are some of your favorite placements? how do you feel about body writing?

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u/lucky_lolaa — 8 days ago

what should I write on myself?

new to bdsm and body writing. so far, master has given me specific things to write and i’ve come up with some of my own. i’m really into it. So far I’ve written “fuck doll” “property of master” “will do anything to cum” “owned slut”. today master said I should let you guys decide.

so what should I write and where should I put it?

i’ve always had an affinity for submission but this is my first true experience being someone’s doll so I’ll take any advice there as well :)

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u/lucky_lolaa — 8 days ago