u/lyalhuot

I am still having flashbacks

I was doing SW in 2019-2020. Met about 60-70 clients in that time overall. The problem is that i am having trauma-flashbacks from one client that took off the condom while doing me doggy and I didn’t realise it until he came. He said ”it broke so might as well do the deed til the end without”.
I know that this counts as rape in our country.
The person started stalking me, whenever I was going to do my lashes/nails/hair in the city center, he happened to be there ’by chance’ and kept following me going home (obviously I didn’t lead him to my place, since I did only outcalls).
I reported him to the platform that he had contacted me on and he was blocked. But he kept making new accounts with a similar name and contacted me again and again. I knew it was him by the same spelling mistakes he kept doing in his messages.

To this day I think my other clients were nice, cooperative and some very pleasing. But this dirtback has a place in my memory that I do want to erase.

Any tips or help? That piece of shit does not deserve a minute of my energy any more.

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u/lyalhuot — 5 days ago

I am still having flashbacks

I was doing SW in 2019-2020. Met about 60-70 clients in that time overall. The problem is that i am having trauma-flashbacks from one client that took off the condom while doing me doggy and I didn’t realise it until he came. He said ”it broke so might as well do the deed til the end without”.
I know that this counts as rape in our country.
The person started stalking me, whenever I was going to do my lashes/nails/hair in the city center, he happened to be there ’by chance’ and kept following me going home (obviously I didn’t lead him to my place, since I did only outcalls).
I reported him to the platform that he had contacted me on and he was blocked. But he kept making new accounts with a similar name and contacted me again and again. I knew it was him by the same spelling mistakes he kept doing in his messages.

To this day I think my other clients were nice, cooperative and some very pleasing. But this dirtback has a place in my memory that I do want to erase.

Any tips or help? That piece of shit does not deserve a minute of my energy any more.

reddit.com
u/lyalhuot — 5 days ago