u/meow_meow-cat

Well, I am just venting out here cause I really needed to and this is the best platform I could think of, also this post is mainly for genuine escorts who might have faced the same.

I have been working as an escort for about a month now and everytime I met someone they told me how they were scammed, and to my surprise they doubt me as well until they actually meet. I don't take advance, I don't ask for any financial favours until we meet, I do verification on a VC, what more would anyone want lol??. So It's really hard for me to understand how tf would they get scammed by me if they haven't contributed anything to begin with.

It's me who got stood up idk how many times, and wasted the entire day, I could have utilised that time to meet someone. That's a loss for me. Many guys will tell you that they are dying to meet you, ask you for nsfw content free of charge, if you send they'll later cancel on you, if you don't they'll verbally abuse you. Also there are some crazy @ss people who will scare the shit out of you by stalking you. If you feel weird vibes and deny meeting them they are gonna create n number of fake accounts and will text you like they are an entirely different person, once you figure that out you will be shit scared to respond to anyone else cause you never know it might be the same psycho again.

Many will exploit you, if you are new specially, you don't know what to charge they'll tell you an absurdly low amount, they will make you devalue yourself.

But yeah, there are some good sides as well. You meet people who will actually be pleased to meet you, will treat you well, tell you that you are charging less, make you realise that you are a person and you have authority as well in that room. I have met some incredible people recently and I am grateful for that. So if you are an escort, and you are new to all this, all you need to do is trust your intuitions and instincts. Whenever I didn't listen to them, I faced these troubles, but when I did they never failed me.

You are strong, you are loved, you matter and you are valued. You are not just a sex worker you are someone who is fixing things, both for yourself and for the ones you meet. You are doing incredibly well so never let anyone tell you otherwise. Much love 💕