My response to the negative post on Alberta Jerk Off Buds
I sent out a heartfelt message to lonely dads on the AJOB forum and this was the very first response I got. He could not have done a better job to convince me we need this new community without that kind of attitude. I wonder how much this would be the sentiment from the people on that forum. Here is what he said, I won't post his name because who cares.
>"Feels redundant tbh. And what’s the intended outcome? Create a circle jerk of misery? Throw yourself a pity party? Maybe the whole “woe is me” attitude is projecting and part of the problem."
Yeah thanks dude, actually what we want is the opposite. Maybe a circle jerk of joy and celebration. We can stop resenting our situation and find a new outlet to have some kind of sexual release and brotherhood with some special buddies who are in the same boat. An actual friends with benefits situation. Imagine going camping together with our families all normal like. But the dads help each other out after everyone else goes to bed. Our little secret.
