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It's hard to make a post like this without coming across as a chaser/chaser adjacent but if you're a trans man reading it in spite of that, I thank you in advance for giving me enough of the benefit of the doubt to consider it (or at least giving it a read!)

Right then, why am I looking for what I'm looking for, one may ask?

I'm a guy who has identified as bisexual for about 11 years now and have really come to enjoy fun with similarly minded guys.

Alas, in recent years I've heavily fallen out of love with anal sex. I've never enjoyed bottoming and topping only ever seems to end messily no matter how much a guy insists he can get things cleaned up back there.

I'm still into men...just...not anal. I really really can't bring myself to enjoy penetrating a butt, but (hehe) I have met some transmen over the years, and had some amazing experiences as a result. Alas, one thing or another would cause us to drift apart (me moving back to London or them moving back home due to only being local for Uni) so I'd love to find a guy who is either local or relatively close to London for some hopefully regular fun, or even better, a friendship with benefits (I'd be open to more if by some miracle of the universe I met a nerdy guy but given the nature of this post, its probably best to keep expectations tempered, realistic and focused on fun).

I'm a nerd by nature, I do enjoy going outside with company or as long as there's a friend to hang with, but you'll probably mostly find me at home playing games, watching anime or working out while blasting a very eclectic assortment of songs and soundtracks.

If you're a Pokemon/Nintendo loving weirdo like me we'll probably end up being instant friends who suspect they may have met in a past life

I'm Jamaican-Irish so if you fear melanin you've been warned 🤣 I've a humble 6 inch penis so if you're one of those size obsessed folk looking to get their stomach bulged like in smutty artwork then I'm sorry, all I can do is blow your back out the normal way 😔

My ideal arrangement would be a FWB sort of thing with a guy I can chill with. Nice, relaxed vibes with a show or a game or something. Some cuddling/spooning that leads to smooching that leads to caressing and then I'll let your imagination do the rest there.

There's also the potential of platonic hangouts if you're down. Now that the weather isn't constantly pissing down with rain I'd love an excuse to get out the house more with a bro, do some gallivanting around Central or West London or something

In the interest of not making you worry I'm a skinwalker or something, if you'd prefer, the first meet up can just be a purely non-sexual thing in a public place where we just chill, talk and get to know one another a bit and see if the vibe is there, if that's something you'd prefer then by all means let me know.

I do not live alone unfortunately (a working class brother can't seem to break off from the nest without a room mate 😓) so if we did meet up either you'd have to host or we'd split a hotel or something. I'm most consistently free on weekends (I do work on a rota, though I do have tomorrow/Monday the 11th and the weekend next week off) so if you're not available on weekends, I'll have to book some time off in advance, but we can definitely plan and work around my schedule if need be.

I'm based in London myself, but I live near a tube and train station so getting around both the city and links to other places are pretty easy, though do keep in mind I'd ideally want a journey that isn't longer than 90 minutes if possible (but I could consider going further afield for the right guy should you be adamant that you thread the needle and you think we'd be a great fit for one )

Soooo yeah, with that I'll stop waffling and hope to god I've not put any prospective partners to sleep with how thoroughly I've bored them and hopefully if you're interested, you'll shoot me a message 🤞

I can't host so this would ideally be at yours. I can consider a hotel for someone who I really got on with and who is absolutely my type, but I've been burned on that in the past and would prefer someone who could host. I'm typically available on weekends unless I'm on holiday from work.

Anyway, with that boring preamble out of the way, hello there prospective reader!

I'm a geeky guy with a penchant for hyperfixating on largely pointless nerdy crap like games, anime and that sort of thing who is looking for another guy with similar propensities.

My type is admittedly a little less masculine than most, more of a twink or a smooth bodied chub kinda guy than a daddy or bear lover (sorry!)

So what am I looking for? Basically I'm looking for a guy I can chill with, maybe game or watch something, have some nice times with comfy vibes and a bit of nice banter and when the mood strikes we get up to some lewdness.

Just a slight catch though...I'm not really big into anal. Unless I'm in a very hyperspecific mood or something I rarely actively desire anal sex. More of a vaginally inclined man. As a result I'd predominately be looking for something orally inclined, a Submissive side, someone with an oral fixation or someone who just generally likes giving head and getting a dom off would be ideal for this. I'm not above rimming and fingering, but penetrative anal is just...not something I'm crazy about.

That said, if you're a trans man/an NB who is AFAB then penetrative sex could potentially be on the table, but if you're of those identities and would prefer to stick to something oral only then by all means, that's fine too.

To get me interested (and also show you've actually read the post since many will just see a title and reply right off the bat) let me know what your favourite game or show or nerdy interest of choice is, it'll definitely help get the ball rolling and it'll set you apart from the usual 35+ year old who can't host who's too busy browsing with one hand to actually give the post a read lol

I can't host so this would ideally be at yours. I can consider a hotel for someone who I really got on with and who is absolutely my type, but I've been burned on that in the past and would prefer someone who could host. I'm typically available on weekends unless I'm on holiday from work.

Anyway, with that boring preamble out of the way, hello there prospective reader!

I'm a geeky guy with a penchant for hyperfixating on largely pointless nerdy crap like games, anime and that sort of thing who is looking for another guy with similar propensities.

My type is admittedly a little less masculine than most, more of a twink or a smooth bodied chub kinda guy than a daddy or bear lover (sorry!)

So what am I looking for? Basically I'm looking for a guy I can chill with, maybe game or watch something, have some nice times with comfy vibes and a bit of nice banter and when the mood strikes we get up to some lewdness.

Just a slight catch though...I'm not really big into anal. Unless I'm in a very hyperspecific mood or something I rarely actively desire anal sex. More of a vaginally inclined man. As a result I'd predominately be looking for something orally inclined, a Submissive side, someone with an oral fixation or someone who just generally likes giving head and getting a dom off would be ideal for this. I'm not above rimming and fingering, but penetrative anal is just...not something I'm crazy about.

That said, if you're a trans man/an NB who is AFAB then penetrative sex could potentially be on the table, but if you're of those identities and would prefer to stick to something oral only then by all means, that's fine too.

To get me interested (and also show you've actually read the post since many will just see a title and reply right off the bat) let me know what your favourite game or show or nerdy interest of choice is, it'll definitely help get the ball rolling and it'll set you apart from the usual 35+ year old who can't host who's too busy browsing with one hand to actually give the post a read lol