"Chastity" Tips
Just a personal thing I wanted to express:
I love chastity cages as much as anyone here does, BUT it's always been an aesthetic thing for me, and I never experienced that life altering feeling people describe. Like, I'll put it on, feel all cute and stuff, maybe take some pictures but no matter how hard I chased it, that sense of submission and denial was never really there. Part of it is practical, I cannot exercise with it, find it uncomfortable, and just overall felt like a niche thing for me to do on a long weekend. I'll get to the point, but basically I accidentally discovered what I guess you could call mental chastity recently where I just simply refrain from having normal orgasms or stroking it at all. Now THIS is what really hammered my brain, and gave me that feeling I chased for so long, that idea of being more permanently feminine even though I still live normally! This helped me accept myself more, since I know shame and frustration can be a challenge for a lot of us, and I didn't need to rely on a physical object like a chastity cage to convince myself of that. It's been almost two weeks now, and I think I've literally never been more happy about myself, and thought I'd share with you guys since I spent hundreds on cages hoping they would "fix" me when all I needed was some discipline to break out of the cycle of relapsing, and just being ok with who I am. Hope this helps if you're in the same boat and thanks for reading!