u/pembroke28

I've just been dipping my toe back into the bowl as an SD and even compared to 6 months ago it feels like when I search "Recently Active" profiles with my filters, I only see maybe 3 or 4 that have the "green dot" indicating they've been online recently. If I scroll maybe 20 profiles down, their last active time is MONTHS ago.

This is a big departure from what I remember just a few months ago. Previously it wasn't uncommon for there to be at a full page or more of active profiles on a weekday evening.

Has Seeking really gone downhill that far? Have people migrated to SDM or SecretBenefits (I've checked out both and they seem substantially worse). Have people all just jumped ship? What are you folks using to find SRs these days?

(I'm aware of Tinder/Hinge and Freestlying, just never had any luck with either)

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u/pembroke28 — 23 days ago