u/poisonedbeautii

My plan to punish my HusDom went perfectly, at least his punishment did... First I got one of his paddles out and placed it where I could easily get it when it was time for his spanking.

Close to my bed time I asked if he wanted to go to bed. I offered a massage to lure him there and he agreed. He laid down on his stomach and I massaged his back for a little while.

Then I grabbed the paddle from where I had it and asked if he was ready for his spanking. He said yes.

I was actually kind of surprised he said yes so I wanted to confirm he understood the question, because consent is important. I asked "So, I can spank you?" And again he said yes.

I gave him two swats and asked if it hurt and he said no. Then I gave two more and asked if he felt punished yet, he said almost. I gave two final swats and told him his punishment was done. He asked what he was punished for so I had to remind him about the phone incident.

Then he sat up and I handed him the paddle and said "You can put this away now." He took it from me, and hesitated for a moment... I thought he was going to decide to use it on me before putting it away but then he put it away and we both laid down.

Of course I couldn't just go to bed. I had to brag about my "victory."

I said "It's like I gave you a double punishment." He asked what I meant by that and I said "I gave you a spanking and got you to go to bed early." He said nothing so I continued talking... "You told me you would like to see me try to punish you, and not only did I try, I was successful. That is a win for me."

Then he said "And what about after you get a spanking for using my paddle without permission... Will it still be a win for you?" Now it was my turn to say nothing... so he continued. "I thought about using the paddle on you before I put it away but decided not to. I could just spank you now though."

I told him "You wouldn't want to do that, you're already comfortable and that would just be so much work." Then I added under my breath "And I want this win..."

He said "It's not much work. It really takes no effort at all." I told him that was okay, he was already relaxed so he didn't need to go through the trouble... he said it's no trouble at all.

He easily "pulled" me across him using my hair so I did all the "work" because I had to... Then said "See how easy that was?" Then he gave me a punishment spanking.

After he finished he asked if I felt punished and I said "Yes, Sir." Then he asked "Do you still feel like you won?" I said "I don't want to answer that..."

So my plan did work with one small oversight... next time I need to use something that isn't his. 😏

So we have a rule about being on phones during dinner. I say I didn't agree to that rule. He says its a house rule and applies to everyone. Dinner at home is defined as from the time one gets their plate until the time the plate is taken to the sink.

Anyway, guess who was on their phone while they were still eating... Wasn't me this time.

Obviously I had to call him out on it. He tried to claim it didn't count because it was kind of a free for all dinner as in everyone just got something for themselves from what we had on hand. I say not a valid excuse, Sir. You broke the rule. He said "What are you going to do?" As if I can do nothing. I told him he's going to get a spanking. He said "I'd like to see you try."

I think he under estimates me. I just have to wait til the opportunity presents itself. 😏

So yesterday he found my post. He said since I "can't handle an open concept" the rule has been modified to a 4pm deadline. 😒 Also because he feels I had previously been told that the tasks are still required to be completed, even if he doesn't work that day, I have been told "explain in written form why I think the deadline is once he gets home from work."

So here is my explanation:

The rule originally stated "Tasks must be completed by the time Dom arrives home from work." There was an issue prior to this when I didn't do the tasks on the weekend and this was addressed by adding "and by bedtime on weekends."

On Wednesday, which was not a weekend, because he didn't go to work, I thought that technically my tasks didn't have to be done.

Now that the rule has been changed completely with a blanket time that covers all day and not specifically to work days and weekends it's very clear. So going forward it is clear that tasks have to be done every day with limited exceptions.

We have a rule that my tasks have to be done by the time he gets home from work.

Today he didn't go to work. He won't be getting home from work.

So technically... my tasks don't have to be done today. 😏

So my HusDom messaged me that he had an idea. I asked what, and he sent me a whole series of messages basically laying out a scene step by step of things he’d do to me.

I read it all. It was really good.

Then he said, “Okay, now I’m going to delete all those messages.” And he did… even though I said no, don’t do that.

He asked why he shouldn’t have deleted them, and I said, “What if I wanted to read it again?”

He just replied, “I guess you don’t get to.”

He can be such a brat sometimes... 🙄

Well I had to retaliate somehow so I told him I had a dream last night. And of course refused to elaborate, despite his attempts to trick me into telling more "If you don't tell me you will forget" and "Maybe you forgot already."

He can wonder what my dream was for a while as my payback. 😅 I'll hold out as long as I can. 😏

So my HusDom comes in the room to talk to me about something I may or may not have done. 😏

Of course, I decided to give him attitude.

Then he reveals the cane he was concealing behind his back.

I changed my attitude immediately.

It was probably for the best, I was already in enough trouble anyway. 😅