27 [TF4M] #Seattle #Washington Looking for service sub boyfriend
Hey! I’m looking for a long-term romantic relationship and dom/sub dynamic. Send me a chat if it sounds like we’d be a match!
About me:
In my free time I enjoy reading, being outside enjoying nature. I like making various kinds of art and crafting, have been mostly printmaking and drawing lately. I’m an anarchist and pretty passionate about political and community work as well, I spend a lot of time on projects involving that! I’m 6’4 since it matters to some lol
I don’t have tons of experience in Seattle’s BDSM scene yet but I’ve been getting more involved in it lately, going to munches and other events. When it comes to BDSM interests I’m into a lot of things involving physical and emotional sadism, service, and control. Some main favorite kinks are spanking, cbt, orgasm control, chastity, denial, and degradation. Love inflicting a lot of pain. My hard limits are breath play, feminization/sissy stuff, needles, abdl, sounding, and scat. I enjoy domming a lot but a switchy dynamic would be fun with the right person.
Who and What I’m looking for:
I’m only looking for someone who I can actually meetup and have a relationship with so please be in Seattle or in a nearby city. I’m looking for someone preferably between 22 and 32 years old. I’d prefer someone who has experience with BDSM.
In the D/S dynamic I prefer to have an affectionate but objectifying relationship with my partner. I’ll cherish and pamper him in a slightly objectifying way. They will be trained to do domestic chores and other tasks to serve me. I’ll use him however I want(within limits) whether that’s using them as a cuddle doll or as a pain slut or as a cook. I like masochistic service subs who like to give up power outside of the bedroom as well.
Power exchange and kink don’t really provide me with what I’m wanting unless in the context of a long-term dynamic. So I’m not looking for hookups or casual play partners. A relationship outside of kink is important too, I’m looking for someone who wants to be serious romantic partners. I’d like someone comfortable going slow with things sexually. I view my dominance as something to be earned and don’t enjoy sex until trust has been built so after accessing compatibility I’d like to focus on getting to know each other and developing a relationship before getting into power exchange and kink play.
Communication is important in power exchange and relationships in general — I appreciate people who can be direct, honest, and open about things. I’m looking for someone who likes giving and receiving a lot of affection. It’s important to me that a partner has similar world view and principles so I am looking for someone at least radical leftist. I’m kind of a nerd about political stuff so a shared interest in that would be nice. Shared interests/hobbies in general would be preferred but isn’t a requirement. Very into nerdy people. I like people who have things they’re passionate about, love to listen to a good yap.
If you’re interested in seeing if we click or would like to know more about me feel free to get in touch by sending a chat on here! Send me some information about yourself like your age, location, interests and hobbies, and kinks and limits in your first message. Please only message me if you’re near me!