u/punkpizzaroll

I am 27f and my partner is 44m. We have only been together for a few months but we have talked about both wanting children in our future and I know that comes with complications given our age difference. I talked with my sister about this and she told me “don’t do that to your kid” and made me feel like shit, basically saying it’s wrong because my partner could die before our child even becomes an adult. I’m having a lot of anxiety because I really love this man and can see a future with him. I guess I am looking for hope and needed to just put this out there. I’m happy to have found this group.