Hi :) I'm looking for women to play with who are into bdsm/fetish/kinky play.
Kinks wise: I'm a switch, sadist, and/or soft dom depending on the situation. From the sadist side, I'm generally into dishing out pain (impact, sharps, electroplay), but also into fisting, anal, bondage, mummification, breathplay, and more. As a switch, I'm also happy to be on the receiving end from time to time for certain things (I love pegging!). But also a soft dom since at the end of the day I just want everyone to have a good time.
How these dynamic looks can vary person to person. I enjoy being friends with the people I play with (and having non kink interactions). But I'm also not looking for a whole second relationship. I'm more into athletic or average to skinny and thinner body types. But everyone's got their own definition for this stuff so shoot your shot and let's see what happens. My pic is pinned at the top of my account page.
Consent and feeling safe are super important to me - for both halves. At the end of the day, I just want to have a good time with someone cool. Happy to experiment/take it slowly and try things out. I also wouldn't expect someone to necessarily be into everything. Some of these things are a bit extreme and I expect it would take a bit of time to get to know each other and build the required trust to do them. If you're into something that isn't there feel free to ask, I'm in to most things.
A few non-kink things about me: White, 6ft tall, muscular dadbod-ish. Scientist for work. Into fitness, cycling, scifi, and have a decently green thumb. I collect coins, among other things, and enjoy data visualization. I'm in a long-term committed relationship where both halves are encouraged to explore - no secrets between us so she'll be aware of whatever's going on.
Please DM me if interested with a bit about yourself please - age, gender, where you are, and what you're into (sorry, I won't respond to just hey/hello). I prefer to meet IRL and have a relaxed chat over a beer or a walk around the block just to see if we jive.
Thanks for reading!