u/retro-regato

I’m not here because my marriage is ending (I don’t want it to). I’m not here to pay for play. I’m here after a decade of dull bedroom situation with desires of romance, spark and longing for connection. The situation is typical - Mismatched libidos, silent suffering and thoughts of what could have been…

As I am moving through life, trying to be a good husband and a father, my ignored desires and needs took the backseat until now.

Now, looking at life around the halfway point, I realize, I have this one life and I deserve my happiness and I deserve to feel alive. I want to feel the vibrant, young at heart, quick witted, hopeful me again. And I certainly don’t want to look back at life with regrets just because my SO is wired the way she is!

I’m 5’10, 175 lbs, Indian by ethnicity, well groomed, fit-ish, cerebral, easy to talk to, outgoing and funny. I’m not here for a fling. I’m here to find that star that makes my dull life twinkle again. If you are her, drop a note.

Now that my thoughts are out in the void, I’m waiting to see if the void has something to say back or it’s going to be just crickets 🦗🦗🦗. Being the hopeless optimist that I am, waiting to hear back 🧏

I’m not here because my marriage is ending (I don’t want it to). I’m not here to pay for play. I’m here after a decade of dull bedroom situation with a mom of two who just doesn’t want to acknowledge that there’s a hubby with desires of romance, spark and longing for connection. Our mismatched libidos meant my silent suffering and thoughts of what could have been…

As I am moving through life, trying to be a good husband and a father, my ignored desires and needs took the backseat until now.

Now, looking at life around the halfway point, I realize, I have this one life and I deserve my happiness and I deserve to feel alive. I want to feel the vibrant, young at heart, quick witted, hopeful me again…

I’m 5’10, 175 lbs, Indian by ethnicity, well groomed, cerebral, easy to talk to, outgoing and funny. I’m not here for a fling. I’m here to find that star that makes my dull life twinkle again. If you are her, drop a note.

Now that my thoughts are out in the void, I’m waiting to see if the void has something to say back or it’s going to be just crickets 🦗🦗🦗. Being the hopeless optimist that I am, waiting to hear back 🧏

[Married looking for AP]

I’m not here because my marriage is ending (I don’t want it to). I’m not here to pay for play. I’m here after a decade of dull bedroom situation with a mom of two who just doesn’t want to acknowledge that there’s a hubby with desires of romance, spark and longing for connection. Our mismatched libidos meant my silent suffering and thoughts of what could have been…

As I am moving through life, trying to be a good husband and a father, my ignored desires and needs took the backseat until now.

Now, looking at life around the halfway point, I realize, I have this one life and I deserve my happiness and I deserve to feel alive. I want to feel the vibrant, young at heart, quick witted, hopeful me again…

I’m 5’10, 175 lbs, Indian by ethnicity, well groomed, cerebral, easy to talk to, outgoing and funny. I’m not here for a fling. I’m here to find that star that makes my dull life twinkle again. If you are her, drop a note.

Now that my thoughts are out in the void, I’m waiting to see if the void has something to say back or it’s going to be just crickets 🦗🦗🦗. Being the hopeless optimist that I am, waiting to hear back 🧏