u/ribbonsandravens

20 [F4M] #OKC, Oklahoma area - looking for an older man to enjoy life with!🫶🏻🫧

20 [F4M] #OKC, Oklahoma area - looking for an older man to enjoy life with!🫶🏻🫧

hi! hello! my name is kitty! (seriously hehe)

i’m also not super kinky, so please don’t try to push things on me. that includes any kink related dynamics and tradwife life styles🫶🏻 i’m also not looking to have kids or relocate anytime soon. in the future maybe, but definitely not right now☺️

a little about me first because posting face pictures right away feels kinda intimidating lol. i’m half chinese , 5’1, blonde hair, brown eyes, glasses, curvy but fairly fit, and i definitely have a round baby face 😅 that won’t go away no matter how hard i try hehe

a few possible dealbreakers: i do smoke medically and drink occasionally, but i’m definitely not a huge stoner or party girl.

i’m currently in college studying marketing. it’s not my dream by any means, but it’ll open up a lot of careers for me!

i love old movies, coffee shops, nature, baking, drawing, painting, yoga, the gym, and reading things that make me think a little too hard lol. music-wise i’m all over the place lana del rey, ethel cain, paramore, korn, hole, fall out boy… anything dramatic or emotional honestly ☺️ and there’s honestly SO much more, but i don’t wanna make this post long!!

i’m not looking to rush into anything and i’m definitely not into hookup culture. i really like connections that feel natural, comfortable, intentional, and a little exciting 🎀

i tend to gravitate toward older men because i like calm, grounded energy and people who are emotionally steady and sure of themselves. bonus points if you’re sweet, funny, and know how to make a girl feel comfortable 🤍

anywayyy if any of this resonated with you, tell me a little about yourself!! it’s way easier to respond to more than just “hey” hehe

u/ribbonsandravens — 5 days ago

Hi, I’m Kitty (yes, really). I’m 20, 5’1, and currently working toward my bachelor’s degree in marketing while also working at an event center. My schedule tends to open up more in the winter and mid summer, which gives me time to focus on personal interests and meeting new people. Oh and I am half Chinese, and half white, though I look white lol.

A few important things upfront. I’m not interested in hookups, purely sexual dynamics, or anything involving DD/LG. I’m also living with a medical condition (endometriosis), which may impact my ability to have children in the future. I’m not in a place where I’m ready to think seriously about that yet, but I believe in being transparent in case that’s a dealbreaker for someone.

I’d describe myself as a bit reserved at first, but warm and open once I feel comfortable. I enjoy going to the gym, traveling when I can, spending time with friends, reading, and baking. I also have a dog named “Puppy,” and yes, we match. It’s as cute as it sounds.

I’m still learning more about myself and what I want, so I value someone who is patient, kind, and emotionally grounded. I tend to be drawn to older men because I appreciate a sense of calm, confidence, and stability. That said, I’m open minded and more focused on compatibility than a specific age range.

Right now, I’m interested in meeting people, building genuine connections, and seeing where things naturally go. I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I do hope for something meaningful and long term over time.

If this resonates with you, I’d be glad to hear from you. Feel free to introduce yourself🤍🎀

reddit.com
u/ribbonsandravens — 20 days ago

quick lil edit to say, no hookups. nothing strictly sexual. not wanting anything that plays into dd/lg either. thank you!!

haii! i don’t really know how to start these, but i’ll just be a little open about it hehe. my name is kitty (yes, really), i’m 20, 5’1, and on the curvier side, though i’ve been quickly losing weight lately. college has me walking everywhere so i guess it’s working in my favor lol. i’m also half white and half chinese. i’m a little shy at first, but once i feel comfy i’m happy to share pics🫶🏻

i love going to the gym, traveling when i can, spending time with my friends, reading, and playing with my dog puppy (we literally match, it’s very cute). i also like baking, sometimes edibles for my friends lol. i’m currently in college working toward my bachelor’s in marketing, and i work at an event center, which means i get little bits of free time in the winter and mid summer!

i’m still figuring myself out, so i’d really love someone who is kind, patient, open, and gentle in the way they move through life. i can be a little shy and nervous when it comes to more intimate and sexual things, so someone understanding means a lot to me. i’ve always been drawn to older men, not entirely sure why, it’s just something about the calm and confidence i think. i don’t really have a strict age cap or anything like that either. i have dated older guys before, but i was in high school so i don’t always like to count that since i was just so young and naive.

i think that’s all for now!! if you made it to the end, come say hi and tell me a little about yourself too, i’d love that🎀🫶🏻

reddit.com
u/ribbonsandravens — 26 days ago